How to initiate grinding or twerking with a guy:)?

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If you don't know what twerking is then look it up. But how do you start dancing with a guy or are they supposed to start it? I went to a party (my first I'm 16) and it got shut down so I didn't dance. I'm going to my friends birthday tonight and I wanna dance this time. I also get kinda nervous when I get there I noticed. please help. Also I'm really tall for a girl(5'11 or 6ft) so how do I dance good with guys without feeling awkward? please and thank you!

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this is what twerking is btw;)

markml · Accepted Answer

Can I suggest...DON'T.

That's not particularly classy, and will turn a lot of guys off (myself included).

Even if a guy doesn't mind you dancing that way with him, he's not going to have a good impression of you seeing you dance like that with other guys...either you're slutty, you're trying to show off in all the wrong ways, or you have no idea what class even is.

Perhaps, you can get away with it if you're there with your boyfriend, because then you don't care what anyone else in that room thinks of you. But otherwise, I don't see how this works in your favor.

Try dancing normally, like face-to-face. It may be HARDER because it means you have to actually look someone in the eyes...but that's a much better impression than some girl coming over and trying to grind with you before eye-contact has even been established. Even if it's a girl I've been checking out, I'm not really into that.

Also there are plenty of kinds of dance moves that are seductive but still relatively classy (compared to grinding and especially compared to twerking), if that's your goal. Probably takes a lot more practice and skill to learn though.

I personally suck at dancing, so it really doesn't make a big difference to me if a girl is equally awkward at dancing...so long as she keeps it classy!

AntonioAI · Accepted Answer

The people in that video look like retards attempting to have sex with clothes on. You should go up to them and just rub their crothes with you ass, none of that humping stuff it looks stupid. Though, if you are 5'11 you might have to lower yourself a little or else you'll end up grinding their belly button :)

Anonymous · Answer

Dance well*

I can't stand either of those. It's not dancing at all, at least not what I learned when I was 16.

Why did the party you went to get shut down?

Also, I don't know a lot of 16 year old's that are 5'11" or 6'. Are you sure you're this tall?

TrisaianNaidu · Answer

well when a song you like comes on hold his hand an take him to were their dancing do it with a cute smile and then when your in a place you like turn around put your hands around is neck an start grind on him ,he will love it and if the guy is shorter then you then just bend you knees a bit

Brando · Answer

You have to start off by letting him see your laffy taffy, then just go from there.

the-man-who-knows · Answer

It may be a little soon for you to start those moves. They are great when you are older.  Dancing where you are holding hands or slow dancing is good.

finestyle1 · Answer

I go to parties to, you don't have to worry guys will come up to you and dance with you , you don't have to be the one to initiate it. Just make sure you know how to dance or know what your doing and relax

BeautifulMischief · Answer

You can't dance in a more tasteful way?

rotarymoon · Answer

um DONT.

Anonymous · Answer

How terribly trashy

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