Let me ask you this. If this guy hung out with another girl in front of you, how would you react? Would you like him more? Get angry? Walk away from him? Think they were together? My guess is you would get mad or feel hurt. Do you really want to do that to him? If he tried to make you jealous and you knew he was doing that how would you react? If it were me I would forget about him because that tells me that he would try to manipulate my emotions in the relationship if things were not going the way he wanted them too. It would be a big turn off to me. More likely than not, trying to me him jealous will backfire and push him away.
If he isn't ready for a relationship then that means he is not ready. If he did suddenly get into a relationship with you, in all likelihood it would fall apart because he is not ready to emotionally or mentally invest and support the relationship.If thing weren't going well, chances are he would pull the plug on the relationship right away.
The best thing you can do is put him on the back burner. Hang out with friends, flirt with other guys (not in front of him though), live your life. If he truly wants to be with you, he will not want to lose you. The ball is in his court, so he needs to make the decision to start things. Good luck!
It's not nice, necessarily, but it does work. Any time it's been done to me, it drove me crazy, but it made me want the person more...Idk, like dsc said, if he doesn't want to be in a relationship, it's probably not best to force it. But, yes, jealousy can work.
Depends on what you mean by "work." You can use it to gauge if he actually likes you or not. If he looks uncomfortable or starts getting upset its a clear sign. But if he likes you he won't like ditch you forever.
As for making you more attractive, the answer is NO NO NO. Women believe that since they're more attracted to a guy who has women all over him, that men think the same way. We don't. Were attracted to physical appearance, sense of humor, and girls were really comfortable with.
If you've been relatively close friends with him for that "over 2 years" though, there is a good chance he's fallen for you, or at the very least wants to nail you. I've had lady friends and after I grew comfortable with them, I started fantasizing about them, even though the thought of sleeping with them when I first met them was repulsive.
depends on the guy if girls are just a game probably. if he's sincere he will probably be more discouraged then encouraged.
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It never works to try and make a guy jealous but girls often refuse to believe this.
I suspect it's because making girls jealous, does work. And they don't realize that men are different than women in this regard.
It'll make him wanna . Go over you and think that your she with him . Maybe he's shy talk to him you ask him out
If girls don't like it, guys don't like it either...don't make men jealous, it sends mixed signals
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