Is my relationship on its last legs?

omega33655
Hello, I will try to condense this as much as I can as well as provide enough details. thanks to all those who take the time to read and reply to this.Anyways, I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years with this girl who I believe we have a lot in common. We have been seeing each other pretty much on a daily basis since we took our relationship more seriously. We realized we were in love within the first year (or so I thought?) I am currently 26 years old and she is currently 21. We both aren't trendy or super social people, we both have some similar or same core values in our outlook or beliefs about life.

Our relationship was going really strong until issues with her came up about being unhappy about a fact about her. I am her first boyfriend as well as lover,and its a fact she brought up and has become an issue. I am quite sure she has never been unfaithful to me. she says since she was growing up she never wanted to settle down with her first boyfriend. However, she has expressed strong dislike for the details about my past that she knows, (eventhough nothing bad) and has wanted to end or put our relationship on break due to this.

(one perhaps important detail is that she was molested for a few years before her teen years by a distant family member) . my experience before her was not at all extensive, yet she refuses to let this go...i never had a serious relationship until I met her. my dating prior her was short term relationships or were dumb dates/flings. I told her I did not believe in a break, and I really could not take her back if she ended things out of fear that she mmight become involved at all with anyone else.i truly love this girl, I could not bare to share her love

we've never broken up, we had one huge fight regarding some emails on Facebook she had seen on my account that were for the most part before we met. (only one was during the beginning of our relationship and it was barely flirty and inappropriate at best) we had our biggest fight ever during this episode (happened a few months ago) . we had a lot of discussions about this and was swearing I was dumped already and that we were never to talk again...when I had finally accepted she had dumped me (after denying her to finalize this) , I gave a final speech,she caved in and we patched things up

i don't understand her, we are fine most of the time then suddenly one day she will be in and off mood and bring these issues up and ruin a few days for us, then the next day she acts as if I just pissed her off and get over it and even have sex with me (as well as say things that let me know she's committed to our future).

i guess I give in to her a lot, I guess she knows she can really impact my emotions with what she says. I feel like our relationship is solid but she can't get over her lack of experience and my past, as well as some issues which she apparently has within herself, so she says

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I don't know what to do, she sure barks a lot but doesn't bite, and its not that I want her to bite.i just want to know how to deal with the barking so to speak
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what am I to do? one day we agree we are talking about the day we live together and how much we miss each other everyday/at specific moments of the day. Although in an attempt to fix our relationship we have been trying to hang out less, since hanging out on a daily basis has perhaps hurt our relationship. sometimes it just SOUNDS pretty bad, then sometimes it SOUNDS and IS really good.what am I to do?
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i don't want to loose this woman, she is the best and only good thing that has happened to me. I've poured my heart out to her time and time again, but when she's upset she could not care less
Is my relationship on its last legs?
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