Our relationship was going really strong until issues with her came up about being unhappy about a fact about her. I am her first boyfriend as well as lover,and its a fact she brought up and has become an issue. I am quite sure she has never been unfaithful to me. she says since she was growing up she never wanted to settle down with her first boyfriend. However, she has expressed strong dislike for the details about my past that she knows, (eventhough nothing bad) and has wanted to end or put our relationship on break due to this.
(one perhaps important detail is that she was molested for a few years before her teen years by a distant family member) . my experience before her was not at all extensive, yet she refuses to let this go...i never had a serious relationship until I met her. my dating prior her was short term relationships or were dumb dates/flings. I told her I did not believe in a break, and I really could not take her back if she ended things out of fear that she mmight become involved at all with anyone else.i truly love this girl, I could not bare to share her love
we've never broken up, we had one huge fight regarding some emails on Facebook she had seen on my account that were for the most part before we met. (only one was during the beginning of our relationship and it was barely flirty and inappropriate at best) we had our biggest fight ever during this episode (happened a few months ago) . we had a lot of discussions about this and was swearing I was dumped already and that we were never to talk again...when I had finally accepted she had dumped me (after denying her to finalize this) , I gave a final speech,she caved in and we patched things up
i don't understand her, we are fine most of the time then suddenly one day she will be in and off mood and bring these issues up and ruin a few days for us, then the next day she acts as if I just pissed her off and get over it and even have sex with me (as well as say things that let me know she's committed to our future).
i guess I give in to her a lot, I guess she knows she can really impact my emotions with what she says. I feel like our relationship is solid but she can't get over her lack of experience and my past, as well as some issues which she apparently has within herself, so she says
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