But I've heard if someone plays hard to get, it's a sign of low interest, immaturity, and selfishness. I'm sure there are some people here who will play hard to get, and it isn't because they have low interest, are immature, or are selfish.
So what are signs a person has high interest, but is playing hard to get because of shyness?
And if someone's interest was that low, it seems like they wouldn't bother playing a game designed to get under someone's skin and make them think about you a lot. After all, there are plenty of guys who I have "low interest" in, and I'm not playing games to try to make them obsess over me. So if someone is playing hard to get: clearly flirting and giving attention, then suddenly ignoring and acting shy, should I assume they're interested, and give them the benefit of the doubt that they may just be shy and really want my interest and attention?
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