This guy I've recently met asked me to come over to his room to watch a movie a few days ago.
I met him a month ago and he is always around: he talks to me almost every day on fb, he always joins me and my friends for lunch, he also tries to spend time alone with me (he invited me to "enjoy the nice weather with him", walk etc a few times, or when we talk on fb he also says we should meet and continue it in real life sometimes...). Anyways, I often refuse cause I don't know him well yet, it scares me even if he is very kind and lovely.
Last night he invited me over for a movie. I suggested we could also invite a common friend of us who also wanted to do a movie night, but he made it clear that even though he likes to see him, he didn't want him to join. Plus I think he wanted us to watch the movie in his room and possibly on his bed... which I didn't want so we sat in the living room instead. I was scared of being alone with him (scared of being boring, lame, to the point that he would realize how uninteresting I am - I know, sounds stupid) so I escaped right after the movie, he seemed a bit disappointed. He's been nearly ignoring me since then. He talks way less to me while he used to initiate all the time.
What's going on, was this some kind of a date ? do you think he had intentions, wanted to make a move and thinks I don't like him ? Or does it look like he just wants to "use" me...
I met him a month ago and he is always around: he talks to me almost every day on fb, he always joins me and my friends for lunch, he also tries to spend time alone with me (he invited me to "enjoy the nice weather with him", walk etc a few times, or when we talk on fb he also says we should meet and continue it in real life sometimes...). Anyways, I often refuse cause I don't know him well yet, it scares me even if he is very kind and lovely.
Last night he invited me over for a movie. I suggested we could also invite a common friend of us who also wanted to do a movie night, but he made it clear that even though he likes to see him, he didn't want him to join. Plus I think he wanted us to watch the movie in his room and possibly on his bed... which I didn't want so we sat in the living room instead. I was scared of being alone with him (scared of being boring, lame, to the point that he would realize how uninteresting I am - I know, sounds stupid) so I escaped right after the movie, he seemed a bit disappointed. He's been nearly ignoring me since then. He talks way less to me while he used to initiate all the time.
What's going on, was this some kind of a date ? do you think he had intentions, wanted to make a move and thinks I don't like him ? Or does it look like he just wants to "use" me...
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