I am kind of a goody-two-shoes, even though I don't really mean to be. I have never done any drugs, have only ever been drunk about 5 times in my life...never been to a club, went to my first bar about a year ago, pretty much lived a really sheltered life. None of it prepared me for what real life would be like. I have been through some good relationships and some really crappy ones. Everyone's got issues, it's kind of nice to have a spot where I can ask if I'm going insane or if my life is normal. Being able to get both the man perspective and the woman perspective is helpful too...and I don't have to ask anyone who has any kind of interest in my situation...makes for much better and more objective advice.