A: Yeah, as a person who suffers from Social Anxiety Disorder (I am 24) I know that a lot of the advice is "easier said than done." Bro, my heart goes out to you. It sucks doesn't it? That's probably why I am here on a Saturday night typing this response instead of out having fun with beautiful girls.... more
A: Dang, maybe he's just embarrassed. You should talk to him about it. Communication shouldn't involve any "accusing". Ask him questions in a very loving, tender, understanding way. Judge his reactions with tact, to see if he gets defensive, avoidable, sheepish, etc. Also, perhaps he is addicted to... more
A: Look, if he's a virgin (like me) then be gentle with him. I'm talking about the way you treat your intimacy. Maybe he wants to make love, but is afraid to. But if he knows you've "gone the distance" than that's more stress on him than it is on you, perhaps. Is he saving sex for marriage? Then... more
A: Because he's a guy? I think he's just curious, and concerned, that he wants you to be sexually pleased. Maybe that's your answer (it doesn't matter, don't you think we've had good sex?) but sexual pride is a much bigger deal to guys, period. Guys compare themselves a lot. Heck, think about how jokes... more