A: A few reasons, one big one stigmas, there is a stigma about geeks being "bad" just like much of modern American society viewing intelligence as "bad" while stupidity is embraced with open arms. Two, it's not so much that most geeks are forgotten about as much as they either don't have the confidence... more
A: Let me see if I can take a crack at this, alright sounds like you come off as a bit over the top with your confidence, which some people see as arrogant and at least somewhat vain, however my personal guess is that you tend to feel bad about your self-image so you try harder than many people do to... more
A: Start with what you interests are, if you are outgoing and enjoy hiking, runing, marathons or computer science related activities and hobbies start with activities, groups or even simply places where such activities take place.To me it's not about where to go looking for not just a decent guy, you... more
A: The more personalized the gift the more you're saying "I took this much time and effort to show you how I feel" it's kind of like giving away a small piece of your heart, it's not neccessarily the gift its self, it's the sentiment and notion behind it that really matters. Plus if you get him... more
A: It depends on what those things are, sometimes I can be as simple as writing whatever it was on a piece of paper and burning it or letting it go as a symbolic manifestation of whatever the problem was/is that's holding you back; to as complex as pyschiatric help and possibly even medication, not... more
A: Hee are my personal reason which I believe some guys relate to as to why they like petite girls too:They are much smaller than me which gives sort of a boost to my feeling of masculinity.Being petite is cute, and adorable/cute is very attractive to me, far more so than being "hot".Danty/petite means... more
A: To me it sounds like you're shy and he's shy too, and or he wants you to acknowledge him and his feelings for you, before he does/says anything so he doesn't feel/seem like a fool for coming out about it.I've been in that situation, so I think that's why my advice and thinking is coming from.If it's... more
A: To me it all depends on why you broke up with him in the first place, was it you, was it him, or was it something outside of the two of you that pushed you to end it with him?If it was him and you don't believe that which caused him to be dumped in the first place is still the same (or just bad like... more
A: Life and people, their centers are difficult to reach without: harming or even completely destroying them, falling, getting stuck, tangled, or losing sight of just how beautiful each shimmering sparkle the threads (characteristics, or moments) give off when light (circumstance) beams off them, or... more
A: I'd say be straight forward, but I've had some less than enjoyable visits with doctors, and I myself have gone to therapy and had the therapist mistake what I said and it caused some problems, but being depressed and having thoughts of suicide at and around age twenty to thirty is fairly common, and... more
A: "Same thing I do every night Pinky, TRY TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD!" *bursts into manical laughter* I'm not sure, since I'm too old for trick or treating, and I'm not really into going to parties or anything like that, I'll either choose something as a spur of the moment thing to do (because a little... more
A: I have a lot of goals, dreams, and aspirations in life, however my biggest and greatest is somewhat difficult to say, I think I have three that are tied for the position and entertwined.I hope to become a successful psychologist and during that work on my schooling to become a psychiatrist, because... more
A: A, it's not because I don't care to put out the effort to chase, it's because I don't think of love as a game. If I am going to be with someone I want them to have the situational maturity to accept my feelings and return them, I'll put more effort out in showing her I love her and to what degree,... more
A: I agree with you to a degree, I mean it is pretty much saying don't work for what you love; yet at the same time I think it's trying to say if you love something enough and truly care about it let it/them do what makes it happiest and if you are right for it/them then it should want to be with you... more
A: Umm, yea that's actually horrible and I'm sorry you two fight like that, but have you tried seeing things from her perspective? I mean she's probably really stressed about her classes and just paniced and possibly when you fired back at her (in defense) it may have caused her anger to intensify,... more
A: Link Somewhat mature content warning, Gary Jules - Mad World which I first heard on my all time favorite movie, though I feel as though the song would be more emotional and heart wrenching if it were sang even more slowly... Anyways, this is one of those songs and as an added bonus, video that... more
A: O well, you're exactly right, see when we say 'hang out" it realyl means "hey even though I might not know you all that well I still would like to take you home with me and make sure the following days you can't stop having bad bad thoughts about me" umm that was a joke, if a guy says he wants to... more
A: Lol, (Orion) I'm hoping it's for BBQ mmm, but in all seriousness, if I had to take a guess at it I'd either think they were talking about not being noticed by a girl or girls in general, possibly even you, if they were there, or they were talking about relationships in general. But Orion is right on... more
A: The number one mistake most people make is assuming people that say things like that won't actually do it, so it's good that you are taking him seriously. If you don't believe you can convince him things will get better I'm guessing since you're under 18 you are still in school, I would reccomend... more