A: Depends where you carry it. Distributed ok.All in the gut,... or all in any other place, eh - time to hit the gym.My roommate is your height and 210. He is a big solid guy. We work out a lot cause he wants to tone, but honestly it depends on how you are built. 210 on him is fine (he could play... more
A: First, don't feel horrible,... just about every person (no, actually every person) in the world is insecure (about some things, or a lot of things). Some are just better at hiding it.Some of this you will probably grow out of, some not.Obviously this bothers you about yourself (the way you dress),... more
A: It could be an excuse like AudreyMarie21 points out, or it could just be that she doesn't date in the workplace.There is a reason for the expression, "Don't poop where you eat." I think the expression illustrates the idea so well, because honestly, there is not an easy/acceptable way to date... more
A: "What do think I should do? My mother abused me until I had mental illness and my dad let it happen because he would rather have me mentally retarded, suicidal, anxiety ridden and dependent on him... then have me independent, happily married, healthy, popular, wealthy while cutting him out of my... more
A: I don't know, I have never been to France in the spring,... what's it like?This could mean a lot of things; he is nervous to call, doesn't know where to take you, doesn't have money to take you out, doesn't like talking on the phone, etc."Would probably be best if you just asked him.Best wishes. more
A: What you said: "I'm bi."What she heard: "In addition to liking you, I also like people of the same sex and have been, and always will be attracted to them."I mean no disrespect, but, really what was the point of telling her. If you can honestly answer that question, then you may better understand... more
A: Charlie, it sounds like this guy has some issues, and while he may have talked about wanting a relationship and about wanting to get serious, he is ultimately scared of it so lets things "fizzle" before they have a chance to get truly serious.Not to make light of anything, but personally I wouldn't... more
A: It's cool that he says that he is ok with it. Personally though,... I wouldn't go there.If anything goes wrong with that relationship, it will really put both him, his sister, and you in a really bad position. While it would be pretty amazing for things to work out with his sister and you (great... more
A: Depends on the girl. I guess it really comes down to how sexy she is,... and that doesn't depend on how she looks.Last girl I was with was outrageously sexy,... and every time that we would work out,... skate,.. or anything that made her sweat,.. it was all but impossible to keep away from her. more
A: You can't really judge the first time,...It can go from too quick, to not at all, to, well whatever. Way to excited, too much going through the head, etc, etc.Go at it again and I'm sure things will last longer.I would also like to comment on the 'still a virgin thing.' --- Um,... NO. Anyone is... more
A: Depends on what you are looking for,... If you are just looking for a good time, then I would say not really. If you think that this might be someone that you want to keep hanging out with, then I probably wouldn't (sex that early in a new relationship can really mess things up - the strong... more
A: Sounds like your best friend likes your guy, and she is flirting with him hardcore.If she is really such a good friend you need to tell her that she is really going over the line and that she needs to chill out because she is no long playful/cute,... she is being annoying.I had a similiar situation... more
A: It really depends on the people involved in the relationship.Although I would say if this is something that really bothers you, perhaps you should bring it up to your partner. Let them know how you feel, and see what they think, perhaps things will go slower and make you feel better, or perhaps... more
A: If you have been talking every day for eight months,... then he might just be out of things to talk about.Me personally,... I hate talking on the phone. That's why when texting became popular I went nuts,.. I can quickly respond, and I don't have to keep a conversation going.Also, after a while,... more