A: If a woman had asked me out in college, and I'd be too busy, but I wanted to date her; I'd explain it to her, perhaps let her join me for studying, and/or I would counter offer.Now, I may not pursue girls, but honestly, if it's on my mind, it's on my mind; Now, I went to a really tough college, so... more
A: Not always. Granted, I've had VERY limited experience, but I don't recall "checking out" other women when I was in a relationship and pretty happy. I know of a select few guys who have said the same thing, so some of us aren't wired to look.There's also checking out, and then there's full blown... more
A: Not an issue. That is provided she can fend for herself a little and that she's willing to split the housework. If these two things happen to be what she loves to do, or she's much better at it, we'll try to work to our positives. See, I love cleaning with music blaring and when I can do it on my... more
A: Wow. What a big question to answer. I'l try to answer as much as I can... We'll go with surface stuff here. Hmmm... First off, for right now, she'd have to be under 32, and over, say 23(ish). I love a smart woman, but not someone condescending about it - like a know it all type. ick. I'd prefer... more
A: She's jealous. I doubt that she really wants YOU (no offense meant to you); I think she's more jealous that you found someone first.Ha ha. You did well, if this new girl is better to you than the old. You did the right thing (oh, minus the begging. You probably learned your lesson. Don't beg. If you... more
A: This one is a tough one, but one that has been going on for ages. Unfortunately, there's not much you CAN do, other than 1) Warn her 2) be there for her 3) Perhaps introduce her to other types of guys, but not make it too obvious. Unfortunately, this is probably a lesson most girls have to learn... more
A: Reading the update: Man, that's horrible. I'm sorry for your loss. I know it's something that can happen (feelings of guilt, etc), but it's not your fault. It sounds trite, but I wish you the best.
A: Personally, if this were her I'm talking with, I'd recommend she stop dating you. At the very least, there's something that when you lose your inhibitions like that, you don't think about consequences, etc. And depending how often you get drunk, that is a sign of some other problems that need to be... more
A: Do what you can to forgive her... but that doesn't mean you have to forget. Ask yourself if you want to spend your life with somebody who you are not "into." Someone that, I'd assume based on what you said, you're a bit lukewarm about. Personally, I'd rather be single and "eh" than dating, but not... more
A: I think it's seen as more sexy for whatever reasons recently in society, so it's the "in thing" now. I would like to think it's a fad, but it may actually start becoming more and more common as divorces skyrocketed, women are no longer typically married in their 40's and 50's, they like to feel... more
A: Ok, if we could, say, bring someone back from the dead, and provided there was no horrible decaying smell or rotting decomposing flesh or anything like that... and if we could return them to a time before whatever killed them... and if we could somehow be friends... providing all of that, here's... more
A: I don't really that often. I suppose I have in the past, I just can't really think of a time. And I don't think it was the tan so much as the other aspects that mattered. I suppose it depends on the woman and her look. Generally, I realize that tan now equals a higher possibility of cancers, and... more
A: I wish ya'll knew just how hard it is for some guys to ask you out, and that more of you handled that whole thing better. See, I ask someone out, and they won't talk to me ever again. And they're usually just about as nasty as they can be given the circumstance. I've even had supposed church girls... more
A: I love caffeine, and love the smell of coffee, but hate the taste (at least so far).My career - I am a mentalist - an entertainer who mimics psychic abilities. I'm an entreprenuer, and I love what I do, (but hate the crummy pay!)I love reading magazines on special effects; this was the career I... more
A: Attention I think.I had a girl resting her head on my shoulder. She must have done it about 4 times in one night. Then she says a few hours later, (because she "knows" I hate it when people flirt to be mean or flirt when there's no interest) "I haven't flirted with you in a couple of months!" more
A: Generally speaking, I'm one of those "if you love them you'll let them go" kind of guys. If he's the better fit, and I "forbid" her from spending time with him, I don't want to be the one blamed every time she feels she made a mistake in dating me. If he's not the better man, and she realizes that,... more
A: Well, technically Yahoo and Facebook. But really, I tend to be online the whole day for my career, and it's in the background, so if I get an instant message, I will probably hear it. I'll have twitter on in the background, I get a lot of good updates from people/organizations I follow. But again,... more
A: Well, when I'm walking down the street and I see a red Ferrari go by, I know I'm in love. ;)Afraid? as in "afraid if she leaves you?" or a different kind of afraid? To some that's not love but desperation. To others, that is a definition of love. What kind of love? more
A: Broccoli is fine. However, I do make sure I watch how much of it I'm eating, and that none of it is and my teeth.Brussel Sprouts - depends on how they are done.Ha ha. I had to try and teach my nephew about veggies. I was running around trying to get him to do a taste test. Even then, it's still a... more
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