Relationship: Single
Occupation: Student
Personality: Laid Back and Chilled Out Guy
I almost picked "educated and cultured" for my personality, but really I'm not that cultured, despite being a super-geek, and I'm very laid-back, so that works better in total. That and it seemed pretentious to pick something like that. Yuck. xP
I'm studying computer science and engineering, but I'm also quite into math, physics, psychology, philosophy, English language, and Japanese language and culture, although I have yet to significantly pursue the last. (I don't count watching anime, even though most of it was subbed. xP) Nor have I significantly pursued philosophy on a professional level, but I'm very philosophical by nature.
For those who have too much time on their hands (like me), my Golden/ORA personality profile is INTA, or the inventor.
I = Introverted (alternative E = extroverted)
N = Intuiting (alt. S = sensing, this means I'm more thoughtfully oriented, or use what I know as a jumping off point for theoretical ideas, instead of just taking things at face value)
T = Thinking (alt. F = feeling, this one is by a narrow margin. I take a more scientific approach to problem solving then most, but am very compassionate, despite having to be told things first, because I'm very socially inept.)
A = Adapting (alt. Z = organizing, this is by a heavy margin. I'm not organized at all, and in a work context, tend to enjoy a job which requires me to be somewhat more dynamic than organized, and is thought-provoking and requires active problem solving on my part, rather than simple busywork.)
On the "adaptive" note, I'm very open-minded, and my philosophical outlook evolves and grows more sophisticated with time. One thing that bugs me is when people try to say that something is wrong when it doesn't cause anyone grief aside from by offending their supposed 'morals', but I don't often verbalize this to friends with whom I disagree, because they mean more to me than just being right. An example is the notion that homosexuality is wrong. I guess I understand the religious viewpoint somewhat, but it's dumb.
On THAT note, I'm bisexual. Though I tend to find women significantly more physically attractive, I can definitely find a man attractive as well. This may have a lot to do with my tendency to develop my sense of beauty based on the physical characteristics of those of whom I admire the personality. I find that during and after every major relationship, my physical/sexual preferences tend to change in favor of my significant other's physical form and our sexual dynamic. One consistent thing though is that I prefer not to feel in control in a relationship, as it overwhelms me to direct a social dynamic when I don't know what to do. I like to *be* in control when I have a (strong) preference, but I quite often lack one, and dislike being forced to make a choice I feel is irrelevant. I also easily sacrifice my slightly less important preferences for those I care about.
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