I'm single. I'm not sure I know how to be in a relationship, because I haven't had one since I was a teenager. I had one non-relationship, as an adult, that I thought was one until the guy told me after 4 years that "he didn't want a relationship" and that we weren't in one. That situation led to me to being confused and scared me from entering any other long lasting relationships with men. Some good came of it though, I'm very good at being independent. I've got a new year's resolution to try dating again this year and leave all the baggage behind. Maybe then I will attract a person that doesn't play games and is just willing to live in the moment.