A: Actually, on some level, I do agree that large breasts are not so fashion-friendly anymore. Of course, it's really nothing to worry about. Who cares if you're fine with them? But, it does suck sometimes when you can't buy a particular top or a cute summer dress. A lot of the "trendy" clothing stores... more
A: It wouldn't sit right with me to let a guy (who I am not interested in) spend more than a $15 dinner on me. I would honestly hope most women would agree with me. A good person wouldn't exploit this even if you, the guy, made the spree seem reasonable and you just honestly wanted to do some sincere... more
A: Like someone said earlier, both should work in this economy. Ideally, I would still say both should have jobs. Now, is being a full-time parent a job? That's it's own debate. Personally, I will have career for myself, and I would like any guy I'd even consider starting a family with to also be... more
A: Is this the first few times you guys have said I love you? Did you eventually say it back to him that same day? If not, then you probably made him doubt the extent of your feelings for him. If you feel that for him, say it back. Be cute and say it like how he said it. If that doesn't fix it, then... more
A: Yeah I do, but I think that there has to ultimately be some unconscious desire to never be with anyone. Like maybe career success is slightly more important than building a family. They don't necessarily know they want to be alone, but they actually do, at least in comparison to other things. We... more
A: I don't really notice a guy's weight too much. It's more like I notice his body (no numbers or a comparison of any numbers). If it looks good, I'd say he's attractive. Now, "good" is totally relative. For me, it's really in the broad shoulders aspect. This is instant attraction though. Girls can... more
A: The possible reason behind this is that hell does rain down sometimes very heavily. For some girls, me included, the maybe-relationship guy is the first to go. So, when there are big changes, the guy does get left behind. If you suspect this is what it is, maybe play it more casual yet still... more
A: Yeah, I would say that's a normal reaction. Of course, if you are close to your sister, you just have to consciously put that behind you or resolve it. Even though that's a normal initial reaction, it shouldn't be continued. That's the only way you can accept them (their marriage and their eventual... more
A: My brother clued me in on something. Some guys like to lead girls on. It may not be maliciously, but regardless of motives, that's ultimately what these guys do. It may not feel like he is doing that, but it can still be true. The way he seems to keep switching his focus on different girls and... more
A: I disagree. Statistics still show that women in our modern western society get paid less (most recent I heard was 70% of a man's paycheck). Now, this of course doesn't happen in all positions of every industry. Some positions women earn more, men earn more--gender is not really a factor in pay. But... more
A: It sounds like he just wants to be a friend. If all the texting happened really soon after he told you that he wants to be just friends, he probably is not confused about anything. In fact, he probably just has it in his head that you guys are friends and that you guys should hang out more and do... more
A: It's probably best to dress low key, but pretty. It's a quasi-date, but not really a date. If you want specifics, jeans and a nice top, light makeup. Don't look like you've tried too hard. He doesn't seem to be making it into a big deal, so don't make it one. Of course, even though it's not definite... more
A: He probably feels like the ball is in your court right now. So, even though it is hard, if you want it, you should initiate. Depending on how close you are to the guy, you could call or text him. I think, if he has been warm to you, calling is better. Usually, if the guy is still interested, he'll... more
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