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glowgirl3
asked What Does The Word "Beautiful" Mean To Guys?
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A: Some guys throw around words like "beautiful" and "sexy" pretty freely. Most nice guys don't, in my experience -- and certainly not the first time they meet a girl. So it depends -- does this guy seem like a "player" to you? As for you calling him, does this guy have your number? If so, I'd wait for... more |
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asked Why doesn't this guy like me?
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A: In my experience, different guys like different "types" of girls, where "type" is a combination of physical features (hair color; height; weight), style (preppy, goth, emo, etc), personality, and other things. In other words, it's way more complicated than "pretty" vs. "ugly". A girl who is less... more |
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Shiner4
asked What do you think about female jocks?
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A: Tshirts and jeans and flats work great most days. But every once in a while change things up by wearing a flattering dress, or a skirt, along with heels. Variety keeps things interesting (and keeps guys interested) in my experience. Good luck! |
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GreenDogg6
asked Is it too masculine for girls to hate purses?
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A: When I was your age, in high school and then in college, I carried my personal stuff in a cute pink backpack, rather than a purse. That worked great until I graduated and got a job in the city, and started wearing skirt suits and dresses to the office. It was then that I decided to shelve the pink... more |
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asked Roommate Crushes, Should I wait until I move out?
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A: From the way this guy is behaving, sounds like you did the right thing by waiting until moving out before making an approach. Now that you have moved out, there is probably not much to lose by making one more attempt -- maybe something casual like getting together for coffee or lunch. Or, if you... more |
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whattodo63
asked What can a person do in this type of situation?
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A: Was she very close with her grandfather? Had her grandfather been sick? Or was his death sudden and unexpected? Also, do you think it is possible that she has met someone new at school? When you went down to visit her, was there any reason to think she might have found another guy? |
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asked What should I do?
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A: Honestly, if you got back together, would you or could you trust this guy at all? On the 3-way, you heard him saying awful things about you to another girl. His "explanation" is that he was lying about you, to improve his chances with her. Does that give you a warm fuzzy feeling inside about this... more |
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asked Do I give up?
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A: Hun, actions speak louder (and more honestly) than words. This guy ended a one-year dating relationship with you (and that was ultimately HIS decision, regardless of the supporting role his friends may have played). He then turned you down flat when you tried to restart the dating relationship.... more |
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twohearts84
asked What are his motives?
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A: Your instincts are telling you this is bad news, and you should trust your instincts. When a middle-aged man with children, in an existing marriage/relationship, goes after a girl 20 years younger, it screams midlife crisis. He's already admitted he's not leaving his current relationship, so where... more |
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Kate-87
asked Should I ask him out?
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A: Yes, ask him out, but keep it low-key and friendly (like maybe casually suggesting that you go out together after work, just the two of you, for a cup of coffee, or an ice cream). I'd use the next month or two to try to get to know this guy a little better (and vice versa). You really don't want... more |
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Fabia
asked What does he want?
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A: You told this guy you would never pursue a man who is "taken", and he said he is against "open relationships". Since you have already had this discussion, that makes the next step pretty easy. Next time you talk, just ask him, nicely, with a smile, but point blank, whether he is in a relationship or... more |
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asked Office Romance, What am I suppose to do?
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A: Based on your clarifying comments, it seems pretty clear that you are now in a FWB relationship with this guy ("friends with benefits"). In other words, to be blunt, you have become his "f*ck buddy". And that's how he's now treating you. The guy is probably happy with this arrangement, and won't be... more |
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asked What does it mean?
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A: Here's how you break the ritual. Call him and have your usual conversation. At the end, when he says "call me tomorrow", you say something like this. "I think it would be fun, for a change, if you called me. Let's give that a try, okay? " Then don't call him, and see if he calls back. This way, he... more |
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asked Office Romance, What am I suppose to do?
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A: Can you clarify a little? You use the past tense ("had this little fling"). And you say he still wants to see you "from time to time". So is the fling pretty much done? Or when he sees you now, is it still sexual? Do you think there is a future to your relationship with this guy? Or is your main... more |
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asked Do women think they are better than men?
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A: Better in some things. Worse in others. Different in all kinds of ways. Why would anyone think that one gender was inherently better or worse than the other? Like there is some sort of overall "score" or award or something for "best gender"? LOL |
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asked If you love something let it go?
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A: You want your loved one to stay because he or she loves you. Not because you have made it impossible for your loved one to leave you. You fight to give your loved one every possible reason to stay, but also the freedom to leave. And if they stay, you know they truly love you. I think that's the... more |
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asked Does he like me and, if so, why hasn't he made a move?
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A: Yes, it's pretty clear that he likes you. Maybe he hasn't made a move because he's shy, or possibly because he's involved with someone else. Either way, it might be a good idea to get some one-on-one time soon with this guy, to see what's up. If I were you, I'd just casually ask him, after your next... more |
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GiJoe
asked This girl, like most, is confusing me, help!
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A: Might be a hint, but might not be. Maybe she is being extra nice because you got in trouble for talking to her. Or maybe she is interested in you. Hey, here's an easy way to find out. Ask her out for a drink or an ice cream or something. If she says "yes", you can see how it goes, and then maybe... more |
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