I'm the biggest realist you'll ever meet, I'm also not very nice but at the same time I'm not a jerk. I treat good people good, bad people bad and idiots like idiots.
I also don't really care much what most people think of me unless I really like them (and I can count the number of people I really like on one hand).
I love debating and do so respectfully unless I or someone else sharing my view is disrespected first, I don't start things but I finish them.