A: Be yourself. Make casual glances at the fellow. In conversation touch his arm with your hand (briefly). Laugh. Smile. Be polite and friendly. Flirting is just another way of saying you're "showing interest." There's passive flirting, like watching him from across the room, or active flirting,... more
A: Don't.You already know the reasons, there will be no revolations posted here. You know babies are a HUGE, lifelong responsibility. You owe your children stability, both in money, life, and love.Yes, you're engaged, but you are not married. It's a technicality for sure, but it's a big one. Last... more
A: You should update your question with an age, because I'm sure that'll have a big part in things! Also, virgin by choice, as in because of principle, virgin by lack of choice, as in hasn't found anyone to date, or other? Because I think the reason behind that would be an important factor too.
A: It's time to let her go. Don't worry so much about what the reasons are, because in her case it seems like she's a bit of a flake. No offence to the girl, but she appears to be drifting in life right now, and drifters tend to go where the fresh breeze blows them. She got swept into your life, now... more
A: You won't know for sure unless you take the call and see what's up, but it sounds like an attempt at a booty call, if that's all the past you've had together. After all, I know the guy at the deli can sing, but I only call him for turkey because that's all I ever buy from him.
A: Here is one possible scenario:You told her to get in touch you with, but she waited a week hoping you'd show a spark of interest. After a week she gave up and went ahead and texted you, and you sent one single reply. Now she's waiting to see if you'll send another to show you like her, or if... more
A: I know you're asking girls, but dude, she got you to orgasm, that's not a bad thing. Imagine if she had got to orgasm from dry humping - you'd be all about it, right? Same thing. No worries, dude, that's SUPPOSED to happen. ;)
A: Plenty of girls like skinny guys. It's better than the other extreme, don't you think? But find your BMI, that's what matters most, it'll say if you're under-weight.
A: You need to figure your BMI, because weight isn't enough to go off of. Height, age, fat to muscle ratio, all of these are factors too. The biggest factor is how high is your self-image? Girls who feel they're ugly or unfit tend to prove themselves right, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A: Nope, so far that's all fine (in my book). So long as you just happened to see her driving, as opposed to following. Now if you text her tomorrow asking "why don't you put on those black panties instead?" while in a tree outside her bedroom, then THAT crosses the line for sure. A grey area would... more
A: If your goal is to flirt less because you're dating, then that's wise. Flirting is fun and natural, but it also sends signals that you want to be with the guy you're flirting with. Obviously any guy in a commited relationship with you would take offense to you flirting with someone in front of him,... more
A: You know how people long to be eternal. But they die with every day that passes. When you meet them, they’re not what you met last. In any given hour, they kill some part of themselves. They change, they deny, they contradict — and they call it growth. At the end there’s nothing left, nothing... more
A: Great sex isn't enough to last a relationship past 4 years, so you need something else too. Your question is "Is great sex enough to pull you back into a four year relationship?" My answer is no.If I left a 4 year relationship, then I'd need more reasons than just "she was great in bed" to come... more
A: Learn from it and move on, my friend. Stepping stones on the way to understanding how not to interact with girls.I know what you WANT to hear is how to fix things and get this girl to like you. The truth is, the things you mentioned doing don't sound all that bad. The girl just isn't in to you.... more
A: It matters in that it needs to be clean. I don't mind it when a girl's inner lips hang down, although I dated one girl who had that issue and it bothered HER an awful lot. That in itself was a turn off, because I like a girl with confidence, and she'd insist we'd always have the lights off or low,... more
A: Yes, yes, yes, a million times yes. I love the looks of most vaginas, so long as we aren't talking about something like a disease-ridden fester hole.
A: You have no reason to feel guilty. A single person is expected to talk to lots of different people, even have crushes and flirt with multiple people. It's nature. If we as a species only liked one person at a time, regardless of that other person's relationship status, we'd have become extinct by... more