A: You can try and learn something from him, I mean I learn a lot from people who don't think like I do, it used to really bother me, but now I use it as a learning experience, that is the differnences. I used to think my way was the right way and my thinking was the right way, but now I realize... more
A: You cheat on her I think to feed your ego, it feels good to know you still have it ya know? I'm sure you love your wife, having sex with other women has nothing to do with love, I don't think you respect your wife because if you did you would not cheat on her so, it has nothing to do with loving... more
A: I would say he is serious if he spends a lot of time with just you, likes to do things other then have sex or make out. Takes you to meet his family or friends, shows genuine interest in whatever is it you are doing or talking about, cares about how you feel and what you think. Calls you at least... more
A: Age is only a number sweetie, your as old as you think or feel you are. You can't base your answer on your age, a long long time ago girls your age already had 2/3 kids were married and considered old so, things have changed. I think if you love him then marry him, if you don't or you have any doubt... more
A: I think its all about confidence, if you can pull it off, go for it. I don't think it depends much on age, I mean Jennifer Aniston rarely wore a bra on Friends and she's pushing 40, and I think she looked great, but then again she has great boobs. Personally I don't wear one a lot in the summer, I... more
A: Its always possible he would drive 4 hrs just for sex, I've heard of people driving and even flying (more then 4 hrs) places just for a piece so.who the hell knows.Next time, have him drive out and don't have sex and see how long he stays or if he comes back after that, then you will know what he is... more
A: Personally, I would just stop initiating contact with him and see what happens, it maybe one of those relationships that just kinda fades out, or maybe he will get the picture and start calling to see you or whatver, but you will never know unless you stop contacting him. Actions speak louder then... more
A: I don't think someone would say or do all those things if it was just sex. He seems like he really cares about you, and wants you to be happy, wether its with him or not. He would not cook for you, listen to you, or introduce you to anyone including god-daughters. You guys sound like old friends,... more
A: He likes you, he's just acting like a 7th grader, kinda cute. Sounds like he's doing anything to get your attention, and its working, lol. He's flirting the best way he knows how to. No doubt in my mind, he's interested, he will probably ask you out soon. Give him a little encouragement maybe to... more
A: I don't know about all that.I think most people "want" to be loved, and I think most people want to love. I don't think its a matter of "needing" anyone, I mean you don't "need" anyone really when you think about it, its that you want someone. Love is a choice not an emotion, we have control over... more
A: Yes, it is you, so she has a past, who cares we all do and you can't change it so.you either deal with it or you don't. Personally I don't think it is fair that you judge her based on her past. Who cares what she did before she met you. If you really love her, which I don't think you do, it would... more
A: Like everyone else said, could be a number of things. I would get it looked at especially if its been there awhile, could be warts, or herpes, ingrown hair, an iritation, a cut, a bite. But I would not let it fester long, get it looked at!
A: Sure you could, I mean there is pre-cum, even if he didn't finish. I would not get all crazy until you miss your period, either this month or next. There is always a chance you could become pregnant if you are not using a condom or birth control, always! I don't care what anyone else tells you, you... more
A: I think if they come back for more, it's a good sign that they liked it, or are interested enough to stay around for it to get better. The first time with someone is usually at little weird ya know? then 2 mos into it, it's like awesome, so. I think with time comes comfort and the more comfortable... more
A: No, I think that is how she really felt about the date, and once she got caught she made up a story to not hurt your feelings, which were hurt already.Honestly, she sounds no good! You drove an hour to see her, I would have been flattered that you would drive that far to see me, just to spend some... more