I'm feeling a bit sad that my boyfriend has no plans to be with me on valentine day. First off I'm not the type of girl that would be like omg what we doing on this day etc BUT i did expect him to mention something when he was at my house yesterday. We both have our birthdays on February his is on the 20 and mines is on the 27. He has told me what i want to do for my birthday our birthdays is on a Monday and he works that day , He even told me that he doesn't know if he wants to request it off or just work since his birthday is a holiday and he said it might be busy, basically he told me his going work so that means i won't even be with him , only on the weekend. He said he can be with me on my birthday and request that day so we can have a 3 day weekend together, i still 'know what to do for my birthday but I'm feeling a bit I don't know sad that he didn't have no plans for valentines and his going to work on his birthday doesn't that sound a little weird? by the way we been together for 5 years already.
Most Helpful Guy
going to work on his birthday isn't weird
no plans for Valentine's day is perhaps a little weird if you two are the types to celebrate v-day in some way. that said perhaps he has a surprise lined up or if you going to see each other this weekend to me that is just as good as seeing each other on the actual day0
Most Helpful Girl
Since valentine came on Tuesday this year, I don't think its a huge deal if he didn't take the day off as it kinds fucks up the week. Personally I prefer celebrating my birthdsy over valentine because my birthday is about me, and Valentine's is about everyone.0