i also what you're going through. my boyfriend and are are both 21, ans weve been going out for a little over a year now. he's not saving himself for marriage, but he's not ready to have sex yet. I on the other hand, had a bit wild of a past, and have been with my share of men. we are serious about eachother, and when we are together what we do in bed is pretty amazing, but it hasn't always been that way. nothing has ever been bad, but in the beginning it was definately frutrating for me because I wanted so much more, and I knew that it wasnt a possibility. the great thing though is that now, we know exactly what each other wants and needs, and the best ways to get it done. I've never been with someone who understands me so well, and even though weve never slept together, he's the best I've ever had.
its completely normal to feel like you're missing out, but if you really care about him, then talk it through, and do anything to make it better. my relationship is long distance, he goes to school in another part of the state, so we have cyber date nights, and when we visit each other we always make sure to do something special, even if its simple. I really appreciate it