My husband thinks everything is a joke, what should I do?
Ok so if I"m tired, he is 100x more tired than I am. We just had a kid and I'm up all night with the kid but on the weekends he has to have tons of naps and refuse to help with the kid at all. He works 9am-5pm and some times gets off early or comes home for lunch at 11:30am-1pm he has lunch. His job is super relaxing, all he does is computer support. Anyways so he acts like I'm a joke and taking care of a baby and cleaning the house and doing household chores is nothing.
Then for everything that makes me mad, like we are suppose to go to church at 5pm but he takes one hour to get ready and we are always super late he blames me for it by making a JOKE out of it. It annoys me and I told him to stop and that I was serious and he replies that with me everything is serious and with him it's just a joke. He always goes "gosh, it's all YOUR fault we are late. you took 2 hours in the bathroom and you took 50 min trying to find a shirt to wear" when in actual it was HIM who did that NOT me.
Then when I'm tired and crabby because I didn't sleep at all and didn't eat all day he goes "Gosh I"m so crabby! I need to go eat more food and leave me alone so I can go eat more food and take more naps" I mean why would he say that? I"M suppose to say that! he got to eat all the food he wanted and he slept 10 hours and he got 20 min naps while I didn't eat anything and I only slept 3 hours so why is he making a JOKE out of EVERYTHING? WTF! I wish he would go kill himself and die because he cares nothing about me or his son. What a POS. I'm so mad right now...
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