I don't want ANYONE to get offended by this question!

First of all, what is your version of fat? You may think a size 10 is a big girl when in actuality she is of average size. It doesn't matter really - just wanted to clarify how we all have a different perceptions of body image.

I have been many sizes. I have found both men and women find me attractive. I recall when I lost weight, that my skinny friends were threatened and no longer wanted to hang out with me. Sounds katty and like the chicks had no self esteem, but oh well.

I was talking to my sweetie about this the other night. He said that a fat chick hit on him and then the skinny chick who called her friend came up and hit on him, kinda like slapping her fat chick back in line, like "he is out of your league."

Its all comedy to me. If its not the plus size diva that gets the guy then it will be the red head and not the blond and then we will have a discussion on how red heads get all the guys. Follow me?

My point is this - a good looking person will always have someone notice them. The world is changing. It is not about size, it is about attraction. If anything girlfriend, you should be worried about who is wanting to be with you and not who is with the phat chick. You'll never find happiness this way.

I'll start by answering your question with a question. Why does it matter? I have friends of all shapes and sizes and big or small they're all beautiful. And I'm not saying that just because they're my friends either. It's just a matter of perception and what people like. Different strokes for different folks ya know? A size ten is the new three honey. And I'm a size three but whatever lol maybe what your friends see is confidence. Maybe what they see instead of a "bigger" girl is a girl that isn't afraid of who she is. Someone that is strong, beautiful, and confident enough to not let a size define who she is as a person. That's called being real and men like real. It's not about size. There are plus size models that make Victoria Secret models look sick.