What do guys first notice about girls when they see them?

Anonymous
To be honest, I'm very self conscious. I'm worried about my weight, my looks, etc. But sometimes I wonder if I'll ever meet someone my type. I mean yeah, I like a guy, but I don't know if he even sees me as his friend.

I'm wondering if looks really do matter when guys are trying to meet girls. Do all guys have a little bit shallowness in them? Like I have a few beauty marks on my face and I'm always nervous when I'm around guys because I think that people would see me as not pretty, even though my friends say I am.

But I always get really self-conscious when I'm around friends that are considered "hot" and it sort of brings me down. So what do I do? Should I just stop concentrating on my weight and looks? The thing I want to do most is to be able to talk to the guy I like while actually looking at him in the eyes, instead of just averting my attention sporadically.
What do guys first notice about girls when they see them?
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