What makes you see a girl as attractive?

Physical attractiveness aside... youthfulness and innocence and girlishness are ultra attractive to me (and men in general). Its weird, many times I'm pretty intellectual and analytical, but I'm usually attracted to others that balance me out. So when it comes to women, I find girls who aren't particularly intellectual and who are free and uninhibited and child-like EXTREMELY attractive. I don't like those weird messed up intellectual deep thinking girls...i watch out for them. Someone who laughs a lot and is spunky and brings out the kid in me. Super hot.

i like a girl who has maturity and doesn't play games, and lead him on just to shoot him down in the end and make him feel bad in the end? and I like a girl who feels equal with the people around her, and I like a girl who doesn't flaunt her material posessions, I like a girl who makes an equal opporutunity to make moves back once you make the first move, I like a girl who shows its okay when to make the move, and I like someone who is down to earth and doesn't make life so complicated like a maze, also when they come along with natural beauty , I run across these girls but they already have a boyfriend, I think the world is against me? :/

It depends on the guy. I'm going to graduate from college soon and I've realized an intelligent girl is a major turn on. Being cultured and a well rounded personality is really nice as well. I'm not saying an intelligent guy is also looking for someone with "Einstein" smarts, but rather someone to whom we can relate a little bit. There's a big difference in conversations between, say, someone who only went to hs and someone who attended college. Most girls and guys who only attended high school are more likely to be obsessed with drama and so on so forth. So anyhow, I guess a girl with a nice intelligent personality and attractive smile are something most guy's would like.

mature, friendly, intelligent, outspoken, amiable, patient, knows when to crack a good joke when I'm feeling down, doesn't look at me for my looks but for my personality, knows what her future is and sets goals "a go-getter," invests something in me whether it be time, money, etc., willing to support me in whatever venture I go into, doesn't need to be with me but wants to, exercises and lives a healthy lifestyle, makes people around her feel better, understands when I need some alone time, pretty much it :)

Her overall personality attracts me. They way she laughs and smiles when we see each other, they way she can make a joke out of anything, that she can make me laugh whenever she wants. The cute things she does: little noises and facial expressions. How she reaches out and touches my arm softly, or puts her arm in mine as we're walking along. The way she takes an interest in whatever I'm doing, even if it's simple. The card she drew for me with a picture of us holding hands on the front. The way she brightens the room with a smile and the way her hair falls across her face. The way she talks and thinks and the music she likes. The way just seeing me can make her happy, and how happy seeing her makes me.

yeah beauty fades but emotions does not, if your love is just based on lust then once lust is gone then there's nothing, what makes a girl attractive is the way she speaks to you, it should be like music to your ears, when you hear her voice you forget about your troubles, when you're with her you don't remember about the bills, work and anything, that look in her eyes that makes you feel loved, the way she acts like a kid around you yet knowing when to be mature, her touch that makes you get that tingling feeling, a lot of things makes an girl attractive, at first you would be attractive by her looks, afterward what keeps it strong is your inner emotions.

Sweetness. A girls sweetness is her most attractive quality to a guy. This girl I knew used to draw pictures of fairies. This other girl I was friends with would chase butterflies. When they bite there lower lip and say would you like to carry my books home from school. One girl I know dances and says I know you guys came to see me. Flirting sitting next a guy. Rubbing a guys back.God I love women! There so amazing gods creatures gifed to men!

Her smell. lol

nah, her personality, I go for that I love a kind girl whose always herself and never acts fake. I don't like girls that start rumors, gossip or are dramatic, I like a calm girl, whos funny and loving but has awesome morals and views on life.

looks and physique aside, dont be judgmental, complexed, insecure, or be a douchebag, and dont treat people like trash, be kind to people, stand up for what's right even if it means stand against your own friends, have principles.
That is the biggest turn on, a girl with sound motives, goals, principles and a good character is the biggest turn on for me.
Asides from that, do work on yourself.
But remember, we live in an insecure society where people are so insecure that they want to drag others down just to feel better about themselves,
And in the end, remember if you like doing something and others dont like it even guys, remember do that more than to focus on being perceived as less attratcie and love yourself and give yourself a damn break girl ! Lifes too short,

Beauty does not always fade. Sure you might get wrinkles and your hair might turn grey, yet there are some that are still able to retain their beauty attributes that attracted their partner in the first place. I look for a person that ages like fine wine while also maintaining their inner sweetness and other divine qualities. Essentially, I desire products with a longer self-life rather than an expiration date (This is a food analogy, I'm not calling women food or products by any means... try not to misinterpret).

I like the thought here. Well its a truth beauty degrades with age but not the personality of a person. If a person's persona is beautiful , then beauty would become immaterial. But a fact of human nature is that humans go more by looks and not by the persona.Besides, it takes some skill to identify the real gem from the stones.

Her smell. lol

nah, her personality, I go for that I love a kind girl whose always herself and never acts fake. I don't like girls that start rumors, gossip or are dramatic, I like a cal girl, whos funny and loving but has awesome morals and views on life.

For me, its femininity. Her feminine nature attracts me. Being very different from myself.

Softness. Her voice, her intellect.

Just being a Woman, is attractive to a man. Difference is always an attraction. For example I am a rebel, my girlfriend is timid and shy, we are strongly attracted to each other.

Someone I can trust with anything, and I truly try my hardest to return that trust. Someone who can admit my flaws, and can admit when they're wrong, someone who can openly agree. Someone who isn't afraid to show their affection, like hugs or holding hands. Someone who just generally makes me feel like I have a purpose to be on this big blue planet, that I am more than just an useless air waster, and do all I can to make that person feel like they are the best the person in the world.

Her presence when she's around me and if there is that "chemistry". If it naturally clicks like that and that she fits my personality: funny,smart, flirtatious... looks don't mean much if that attraction is going on

Personality wise, she must have a good sense of humour. A girl who makes me laugh, and laughs a lot really pulls me in.

girls that play sports, and are not materialistic, naturally hott without makeup, and are down to earth, and I dig brunettes a lot, alos ones that make the first move, and are agressive

well only a hot face and body will make a guy want to get on a girl. as far as other qualities a guy would like a girl to have - funny, smart and nice are what I want.

Starts with her focus: Is she centered in herself and her issues or is she generating beauty,

wisdom, curiosity and love to the world around her.

Very personal choice:

1.A natural smile

2. Twinkling eyes

3. Something she says

4. Colours I like that day

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