Your question sounds a bit on the "I'm not too bright category" unfortunately. You are 35 - 46 and you think the penis has a major role in a good f**king? You have to know it is much more than that. He has to know how to use all the tools available to him to make sex good, with size of the d*** being the least important part of it.
Well in a situation like that it kind of up to you to direct him. If whatever he was doing wasn't working for you you should have told him what you wanted. Go deeper, go faster, lets try this position you know something like that. Men are not mind readers you have to tell them what you want.
If girls only dared...
That's crap, Jacque. what's the worst that could happen?
Thanks lulu- you have a great point. Jacque - women do dare. Vetmedhead - your right, the worst that could happen is the guy remains in his current situation of not being "great in bed". Which probably won't happen because of psychological influences making the guy want to learn what improves his sex experience.
you really need a reality check.
Sex should be shared with someone you care about, and if this is your friend, I'd hope you care about him.
and what does penis size have to do with being good at sex?
you seem like a selfish bitch.
Your update, just makes you sound like an even bigger bitch ;D
If's that the case next time you need to jump on top and show him how you like to roll. He may be a little bit wary of bringing out the freak inside. if after that if he isn't performing up to standard then get rid of him and tell him you just want to be friends.
Uhhhhh wellll let's see.
Just let him go if he's no good for you. No point in beating a dead horse, or f***ing an odd fellow.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you're that horny, you should take over the reigns. Just being a man doesn't mean he has to be in control during sex. Especially if you like hard sex, just do it yourself.
Open communication between partners is the best way to have mutually great sex. You both need to talk about what you like and what works foe each of you.
bc the saying that its not about how big it is its about how you use it is very true!
About sizes: link
Skill is not related to the size of the tool.
I guess size doesn't really matter.
Can anyone say conceited bitch? Oh yeah... almost everyone on this thread! +1
I'm a 20 year old virgin, and I can assure you that I probably can't f***. As to having a big d*** I don't know why that would have anything to do with why he can't f***. as you have put it.
I see you as a mean bitch.
I totally agree with you,
do you mean he did it badly, or he couldn't get it up?
Really large guys don't always get as stiff of an erection as small guys, or so I have read.
There is a good reason why your average human male have 6 inch penises. If you are too small you have a lower chance of making a female pregnant....sperm has a longer distance to travel. if you are too big: you can hurt the womans uterus reducing her chances to become pregnant OR your floppy 12 inch doesn't penetrate as deep as a rock hard 6 incher. its called evolution. If the guy is really wide down there, it stretches the vagina out so wide, the sperm flows back out of the vagina. Evolution !
https://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm
How can you be so conceited?
1. He's your friend
2. What does it matter if he has skill in the bed, he is probably innocent and sweet
3. You need to stop having sex for a while if your that loose.
To your update- Then stick to the men with 5'' if that's what you want. The men that have 12'' or more probably scare off a lot of women who go "uhh hun, I'm not THAT loose.. Put it away or you'l kill me!" You are - a - selfish - bitch. You are 35+ and wanting great sex from your friend. Yet when he gives you bad sex you talk like he should be perfect in every way. No two people are the same. So the guy with the 1'' nub will probably show up some dude with a 12'' glory. He desires to learn more
Because otherwise he feels his "tool" is inadequate. Women that think like you disgust me. Its like you need that 12'' of steel and the best orgasm in the world or else you will sleep around with everyone to get what you want. If your looking for a good time, become an escort- they make money and get pleasure all day long.
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