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I want to bang a virgin girl, any tips?

Okay now that I got your attention I just wanted to say I'm 20 year old virgin and I want my first to also be a virgin. Of course I plan to honor her and stuff and intend it to be a long lasting relationship. But after my last question just realized I just want some tips on picking up a virgin chick who I am compatible with (between 18-21 lets keep it legal). to be each others first. Feel free to be as mean as you want and speak your mind, we all know you wouldn't say it to my face, grunt lol. But all meaningful, and useful advice tips are sincerly appreciated. I thought about putting out an add for a virgin chick around my age, Yes I'm a pretty shy guy, but find myself caring less and less. I just want us both to lose this curse together in a meaningful way and ideally have a long meaningful relationship. I'm not a fan of one night stands. but If I can't find a my ideal girl by 24 I'm not above going to the bar. BTW Big fan of Natural Blue Eyed Blonds, Is that even relevant. Please Insert Tip Below. Apparently girls think I have a nice butt, Girls started grabbing it since elementary. And I've had girls say so straight up. And chemistry/ giving her what she wants are my top priorities. If a Virgin girls wants to do it now, I may consider since virgin girls are so hard to find.
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Thanks for all the answers so far, girls and guys. Of course I won't take advantage of a drunk woman that's against my morals, as for dumping a girl for not being a virgin, I'm not sure how to handle it, I mean if I married her I'd always feel cheated.
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I'd try to just be friends with her, I mean I've been pretty darn good at staying in the dreaded friend zone. And either lose it to another girl if I grow impatient or something I don't really know.
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Alright so the winner is Red Head baby Girl, she gave me some good advice rather than just go to church a church singles group, Yes going to church just to pop a cherry is wrong, but there are some answers I need from God, deep philosophical & moral ones!
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Now to find a church with good looking girls, yes messed up, but then again this is a messed up situation and society I live in. Time to catch my dreams, thx for the time you all gave me, and the hope you gave me Red.
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  • I think you're missing the point of sex-it's to share with someone you love. What happens if you fullfill your dream of doin a vigin-but you're not in love with her-you're just gonna end up feeling bad. It can still be special if the girl's not a virgin. I used to think being a virgin was such a big deal and I was so scared to "get my cherry popped." but when I finally did it when I was 20, it never popped. I asked my gyno about this and she said it may be because I was into sports(gymnastics) at a young age and my hymen has been gone for many years already(horseback riding can do it too). So there is the possibility that even if you find a "virgin" she may not be a virgin scientifically speaking. I still consider myself a good/moral person(even though I had sex). I have never had sex with anyone else and I don't plan to until I find the right person, I have not had sex for almost 3 years now. The point is do it with someone you really care about, and if she just happens to be a virgin all the better-but you're stressing about it a little too much

    I know this point of view is a little different the the others hoped it helped

  • I’m a virgin as well, and I plan to “lose it” to another virgin. In fact, I’m waiting till marriage.

    Having waited that long, you may as well. Wear it with pride! I think that there are actually more virgin girls than virgin guys…more who are “waiting.” So I really don’t think you should have a hard time finding one.

    If you’re looking for a hot virgin, don’t feel discouraged. You would be SHOCKED at how many hot virgin girls there are out there…most of them feel embarrassed of it, so they don’t tell anyone, but they’re still out there! A lot of people assume that the only virgins left over a certain age are ugly as heck, but that’s not true at all. They are real, and having gone to the trouble to wait, most of them would kill for a virgin guy.

    Good luck!

    Try a church singles group. the women there are mostly gorgeous and about 90% are virgins!

    • Definitely not proud of being 21 and having 0 experience. If a girl feels embarassed think about how a guy would feel when every other guy I now except 5 other guys have had serious girlfriends and get pretty graphic in public with them, Not only am I the oldest in the group of v-guys I know, also least expereinced. It really hurts a mans pride. But thanks for the hope, people like you keep giving me some when I almost run out, too bad all these virgin girls seem to be in other states lol.

    • Im sorry but you can't just assume 90% are virgins, but yea some probablly are

    • I think 90% might be a little bit high even for a church group but there still is a good percentage of people that are virgins so that would be a good place to look. Especially if you want to find someone that shares your religious beliefs, which I think can be just as important if not more so. By the way, I'm 31 and still a virgin so don't feel too bad about being a virgin right now. A quality person will respect the fact you're a virgin, not make fun of you for it so don't worry about it.

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  • At the age you are now, it would be extremely difficult to find a girl who isn't a virgin. Nowadays, people are having sex before they even know what it means. To actually be able to find a girl that is a virgin, you would have to scout out younger females. And you specifically said to keep it legal. So chances of you finding a girl around your age that is a virgin are very slim. Hell, where I live, people are having sex at 12 and half of my High School is pregnant. A lot of girls just stop caring about morals and self respect when it comes to sex. The only virgins someone will find around my area are nuns. lol.

    It is a good think that you are wanting to save yourself for someone special, and hopefully, before too long, you will find someone who is willing to do the same. =]

    Good luck!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't.

    Virgins are prone to a very steep learning curve and often come with a lot of emotional expectations that no one can meet. After a few partners, they tend to get enough experience to be more understanding about sexuality.

    Before you object, please recognize that you have similar issues. You are expecting a great deal of return out of sexual encounter. That really isn't fair to your prospective partner. Few relationships work out long term because that is the nature of relationships. Heaping huge expectations on someone only makes the likelihood of disappointment that much greater. Don't try to make sex something holy. It is a wonderful activity that generally can bring people pleasure but it doesn't magically or automatically lead to fulfilling relationships.

    • So do you just suggest I get laid and forgot about my morals and expectations, and just tap a hot chic? Dammit the chances have been there and I turned them down time and time again. It would be f***ed up for me to get a chic that has fooled around and settle with her, when I didn't fool around don't you think? I do dammit, seems no one has a real solution to the issue, which is how to lose it with a virgin. With a little work it should work, but if it doesn't at least we'll be equal.

    • I do suggest you let go of your your expectation. What you want is both unreasonable and unlikely. This is one of the problems with sleeping with virgins. More of a problem is the subtext belief that having sex somehow degrades a person (which is part of what drives your need for virgins). Heres the statistic, 97% of people have sex before marriage, most of them before they are engaged. If you insists on looking for that small percent, you odds are much smaller.

  • okay I'm a nice guy but I can be a total guy and give me dirty trick

    but remember to play by the rules, get it?

    the only way that you can hv sex with a virgin girl to make her fall in love with you

    i know that sounds horrible but its true, as long as she fell in love with u, she won't regret it unless what you make her feel to love you is fake, so be yourself, in the interesting way

    another way is to ask ur virgin friend to have sex with u, I'm sorry to say that she will be ugly or/and fat

    please do not hv sex with a drunk virgin, I will travel there and kick ur ass

    so get yourself an easy target, be friendly with a self concious girl, make her totally comfortable with you and herself, then she will open her legs

    • If she's a virgin you probably have to have good moral character to win her over.

    • Yeh, or a pretty good liar but that's not you I know it, otherwise y ur still a hvnt, right? u dnt hv to lie, just bend the truth that suit ur skills nd personality

    • 'm sorry but I don't wanna date a girl who hurts my eyes to look at her, virginity is only important to be equal. If I can't find a virign girl my 24 I'll just get an older tutor for a discreet relationship and gain some experience. And lying isn't my style. Neither is molesting a drunk chick, although being a vrigin with no Girlfriend for 21 years of life makes me empathaize with those bastardds that do that garbage, pretty messed up but part of you would feel messed up if you were in my place

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  • I was a virgin until I was 19 and 3 months, but I was the only one out of my "circle of friends" that still was. I guess they're rare -- few and far between -- at this age, but they do exist.

    Do you go to church? If not, maybe you should take up that. I agree with the guy who said to find a good girl. Just a suggestion I can think of.

  • if ur just lookin to loose ur virginity to a virgin gurl then I thnk you shud wait becuz I believe that inorder to have sex you hav to love each other not just about looks but wats inside.

    yes I know that virgins ur age are hard to find but if you dew end up fallin for a gurl that's not a virgin would you just blow her off?

    i believe you shud wait and if you find ur gurl b4 hand and you 2 are ready to have sex then go for it :D

    hope I helped ^_^

    • I wouldn't really blow her off, but since I am a pro at being in the dreaded friend zone I would try that. I mean my first Girlfriend will probably want to marry me, not being cokcy or anything, but the way I was raised I'm the guy a girl wants to take home to mom and dad, not the bad boy they fool around with,and since I'm a virgin it would be really unfair for me & the girl who had her fun to get with a guy who didn't. Besides most girls my age would run away from a guy who's a virgin.

    • To be steretypical either not all gurls are gunna go! man y gurls do value their virginity and well as for me ((still virgin)) i would thnk that in order for me to loose my virginity I would hav to be sure that I'll last with him and the he dusnt just want me for sex you get me? also love in the relationship and being sure that ur ready for it emotion wise and a gurl ur age mite or mite not that's y you have to take thngs slow and actually take the timee to get to know her if you dnt want a night one stand

    • Sex is just a bonus, a HUGE BONUS, since I'm sort of a perv. And to me as soon as I take a girls virginity it is more official than a proposal, I will marry her unless she cheats on me or something messed up like that. And I will get to know her, I will wait a minimum of 3 months to um you know,although I think waiting a year is more reasonable, for us both, after that we should be ready to have some serious, yet gentle fun;P Know the problem is finding a virgin potential GF.

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  • Why don't you become a Muslim "martyr" they get 77 Virgins when they get to heaven LOL

    • Yes but what if they are of your same sex!! Oh man terrible thought..

    • Lmao

    • They get 77 Virgins when they get to heaven. Yes, that is in the sunnah. However, the correct translation foer the Aramean word used in the Quran is not "virgin" but "white grape". Errors are human. Another crucial point in the sunnah is that every woman entering Paradise becomes a virgin again, regardless of age. Enjoy it.

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  • Wow you sound like a real winner!

  • I'm just glad you're sweet enough to "honor her and stuff".

    • LOL

  • Going to church just to find a virgin? How genuine! *sarcasm*

    "Sorry, you're not a virgin, therefore I don't want you"

    please!

    • Next one, "Are you a virgin? I'd like to bang you because you're a virgin" ...Sounds awful!!

  • Go to church. That's the only place you will be able to find virgin girls. I'm chinese and in my culture, there are many girls who do not believe in pre-marital sex. You have to find a girl who is conservative and shy. I am 23 years old and have not had a boyfriend yet. You can also find a virgin if she is physically unattractive and yet picky at the same time, which is what I am.

    • You said you wanted to lose your virginity to a virgin. Let me tell you that all virgins feel pain during sex... For some people it lasts 3 months for others it lasts one year. There will also be a lot of bleeding the first time you do it... sometimes, this oveflow of blood lasts for 3 days.

    • I will be gentle and patient with her, I may be selfish sometimes, but I'll put her before me in everything!

    • *points to first person* Whaaaaat? I'd like to ask where you are getting your information from. It sure as hell doesn't function like a romance novel would have you believe but you're pretty far off your mark there. It should not hurt for 3-12 months, if it does see a doctor. Some girls bleed and it CAN last that long but take into consideration that some girls don't bleed at all and that for some virgins their first time doesn't hurt either. It's all about the person and the experience.

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  • I've never known a virgin guy lol

    im a virgin 2

    but you hafta find her first

  • what is BTW? and if you've already waited this long you may as well stick it out for marriage.

    just think how extra spectacular it will be then. you'll have the biggest party , presents, then sex , and a honeymoon.

    sounds pretty fricken awesome to me.

    • I don't mind to wait until marriage as long as I meet and marry this girl within 2 years, the problem is that I can't find her!!! I need tips on finding a really cute virgin girl that I click with!!!

    • Church...maybe ther's a virgin dating website...what's a BTW?

    • I never found a dating site for only virgins. BTW, BTW = by the way, for me. And like I said going to church just to find a virgin girl seems immoral and disrespectful to God.

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  • Horoscopes and astrology aren't credible! A Virgin is not better than a Pisces or a Sagittarius or a Leo.

    Ooh, did you think about being the first to enter her mind?

    Chances are a few (numerous?) pop stars preceded you.

    Ooh, did you think about being the first to enter her body?

    Lots of cookies, potatoes, pizza entered (and left) her body before you, guaranteed.

    Ooh, did you think about being the first to enter her vagina?

    Is her vagina then the only/most important thing in your mind?

    Ask yourself why the others didn't want it.

    I'm mean, huh?

    And you, wanting to control her life ? Isn't she free, then? It's HER body.

    You want to "BANG" her. Sounds very respectful:-s Or doesn't it?

    BTW, my wife was a virgin when we met. Hadn't she been, I would have loved her just as much.

    I never "banged" her. We love. We make love.

  • go out with girls of the same religion or beliefs...u can find one there!hurry

  • If someone is still a virgin at age 20 it probably won't be easy to get them to give it up. You can't ask them if they're a virgin as soon as you meet them, since that would be strange, but then if you don't do that you may get into a relationship with them then find that they're not a virgin, then I guess you would have to quit and start over with a new girl.

    I think you should just try to find a good girl, then maybe you'll get lucky and they will be a virgin.

  • yeah. like many have said. if you fall in love with a virgin, you should consider waiting till you marry, that's proabably what she will want. and there are many virgins out there. don't lose hope.

    • THen I'll have to marry her in a year, because its tough to fight your hormone for seven of them, now to actually find that girl lol.

    • That was a selfish reply I'd wait for a long time for her but not past the age of 24, and she'd have to really be a virgin.

  • Marcus 7:14-23 :)

  • OMG. Some girls who aren't virgin aren't sluts. so f*** your philosophy.

    • Not "some", "most" It's hard to find a real completely slutty slut.

  • wowwwwwww the 1 one thing you got learn about a virgin is if yo utake it your in for a long ass trip because this girl will fall for you so you better be doing this if you love the girl

    • The issue is finding the virgin girl first. Then to treat her right.

    • Look for a 12yr old long distance runner. (joke!) Might lack a lot of charms and be illegal though.

  • wow. you sound like the dreamy guy.

    just wait, keep your eyes open, and listen to your heart,

    you'll find her ;)

    • There is nothing I doubt more than that. T.T. Getting all EMO

  • I am waiting until I am married, that's what its meant for anyway and then it will be more interesting and fun

    • Marriage is a long ways away, I'm only 21, but my hormones have been bothering me since 14, there's only so much discipline a guy can have. Its easier to say you'll wait to marriage while under 18, but lets see how strong your conviction is at 18 or 21. I sincerely hope you make it.

    • Ill keep you updated and I know I will be able too because I am actually really strong and it will happen. and with the rate I'm going right now I will be able too (never kissed a guy)

    • Glad your so determined, your future partner is really lucky, of course that's always easier to say when your under 18.

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  • Most girls will have lost it by 20.

    Anyway, I'm not sure you can really say, "I want my first to be virgin too". If you wanted that, you should of said that at 16 (or whatever the legal age is in your area). But the point is, you lose it to whoever you really fall for. What happens if you fall in love with a girl who isn't virgin? Are you just going to say, "im sorry, but I can't deal with you because your not virgin".

    You need to be realistic about your age and who you want to be with.

    That's not to say you can't find a girl who will be a virgin however. If you do, congratulations.

    I know you will want her to feel more like yours and vice versa, but you could be looking a while.

    You would have more chance of finding someone who's had sex once and who is still inexperienced. If you do that, you will create a strong bond if all goes well too. Trust me on that one.

    Good luck.

    • In that case maybe I'll go to friend zone, or get it over with some other person. No way a girl will be the only person for me If I'm not the only one for her.

  • get a dummy

    • Don't know if I'm that perverted maybe a pocket puss lol/jk

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