Guys when in a "relationship" do you start fingering a girl?

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Like Since the first time you start Kissing, after 3dates, at any chance...as soon as possible? Girl how soon do you let a guy finger you? Did you ever stopped a guy and didn't let him do it? How did he react? Share your thoughts about it...and guys If a girl doesn't let you do it how do you react?

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tyler_davidson Xper 5
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One girl let it go a month in. My last girlfriend took about a month and two months.

She did stop me once or twice but it was after the first time. We went all the way and then we kind of backed off because she felt bad because she wanted to wait, so every time I thought we had warmed back up to it and she stopped me I tried to keep it smooth and went back to kissing and rubbing and left it at that for the rest of the day.

She muchly appreciated my understanding.
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- Asker
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  Cool. But when have you started trying? Just after 1 month? Was any of them virgins? How long after the fingering the sex started? Just answer If you don't mind I am beign too noose
- tyler_davidson
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  its all good. both were virgins, and I didn't have sex with one until my 4th girlfriend and that was the one I fingered at a month and a half. We had sex at about 3 months but we didn't get a lot of alone time. I probably could have gotten it a lot sooner. And as far as the month finger, I was still shy and I'm always respectful so a month is the earliest I will pull the first sexual move.
- Asker
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  Thats Nice to know...maybe I look slutty or something because guys try with me as soon as We are in a private place...and I am such a Nice girl, no slutty clothes that could give this impression, I actually am a virgin...i think I might attract the wrong type...
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- tyler_davidson
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  its okay, I mean everyone finds the right person and all I can say is anything past second base can put a huge strain on a relationship so make sure they know that.
Xx_DRE_xX Xper 4
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For me I think it was into the 2nd week we started.
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- Asker
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  Did She let you the first time you tried? Have you ever tried and the girl didn't let you ? If So how was your reaction?
- Xx_DRE_xX
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  Yes & yes. My reaction was just like "damn, why not? :/ "
- Asker
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  Lol, I mean its much better for the girl than the guy, but We don't wanna cone out as too easy you know...i mean how can it be Good to a guy its just his finger could you Tell me why you guys want to do it?
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- Xx_DRE_xX
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  Because we like to be kinky and watched you turned on. Hopefully it'll put you in the mood for something else ;D
- Asker
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  Ah I guess that's it, to put the girl in the mood for more...see If She wants something bigger lol its hard for a girl to control the moaning when its a Good fingering...

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beerY33 Guru
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the first time you start kissing is after 3 dates? I wasn't aware of that rule.

seriously, though. there's no standard on this. do it when it feels right and you're ready.
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- Asker
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  Lol of course not, that's not what I meant... I wanted to give examples, like 3 date, just after you start Kissing , as soon as possible and So on...get it?! There are no rules but some people have there own rule... I don't mind Kissing after 5 minutes talking but I do mind him fingering me...
- beerY33
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  ah. yeah, I don't have a rule about this, and I don't think it's appropriate for anyone to, really.
- Asker
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  I could be ready for Even sex right away but I don't do it, because I think it could ruin everything...but yeah best just to do what you feel like...
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- toulouse
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  if your worried it will ruin things, then your not ready. you are lying to yourself. being ready, means your comfortable with it, not just horny. if you want sex but are worried itll ruin things, you are probably with the wrong guy. 6 out of ten, long term relationships begin with first date sex. it obviously didn't ruin anything for them.
- Asker
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  Cool to know the statistics, I am quite impressed, I don't know any case So I guess I only met the other 4...but you are probably right If it was the rigth guy I wouldn't be analysing the steps, which I always do...