First time anal sex experience?

I'm really nervous about this. Girls: How bad did it hurt? Did you bleed? Did you have trouble afterwards? Was it worth it? Is it gross? How bad does it hurt! Guys: Is it attractive or gross to you? Is it really pleasurable? Any advice would be appreciated!
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  • "How would he do it wrong?" you asked..

    I googled to find a good article but couldn't find anything that is "right to the point" and that brings out the most important points here.. There are a few things I need to explain so that you will understand my explenation here..

    --> Some anatomy. There is this "ring" or "sircle" thing right around your anus... idk.what its called. If you put a finger in there, you will clearly feel it.

    Point being -> THIS IS IMPORTANT TO NOTE -> that when your arused and ONLY WHEN UR ARUSED, meaning really horny, That's when this "ring" will RELAX (Otherwise its sqeezed very tight togtheter). When this "ring"/"sircle" has relaxed that's when he should put a finger in there to make you relax even more, also to lube it good. THEN he can slowly put his d*** in, starting out with nice and slow movements...but then you will be begging him to go it harder.

    SO... The only time anal sex is hurting you, is when this "ring" or "sircle" around your anus is sqeezed tight togheter, because your not arused enough... .

    I don't know how to explain it any better/easier than that, I hope you understood my broken English. altho if you have any further questions I shall answer ^.^

    • Also even if you don't use condoms otherwise, I strongly recommend you to make him use a condom when having anal sex!

  • How bad did it hurt? A little. Every time I would feel pain, I would tell him stop, and then we would wait for a minute, or two, wothout moving it.

    Did you bleed? Nope.

    Did you have trouble afterwards? No troubles. I felt somehow streched :) lol! and a little pain, but great! orgasm made worth it ;)

    Was it worth it? yes. orgasm is great!

    Is it gross? No. But maybe you should check his thing afterwords just to check if everything is clean, before he takes a look at it.

    How bad does it hurt! - It hurts in a pleasurable way. It has to go really slowly, step by step, cm by cm and it will be great when it comes in in the end.

    enjoy! and lot of lube! lot of time! :)

  • How bad did it hurt?

    -> It didn't at all.. it feels amazing. You have a G spot in there also, you can orgasm pretty hard from anal sex and it feels amazing ^.^ (If it hurts, your doing it wrong. And by you I mean him.)

    Did you bleed?

    -> lol No

    Did you have trouble afterwards?

    -> what kind of trouble? I didn't have any..

    Was it worth it?

    Hell yes...

    Is it gross?

    -> No... Just wash normally, and make sure you don't need to poop right before! Poop is held deeper inside of you than you think! It's not "right there".

    • How would he do it wrong? I feel like it's gonna hurt extremely bad...

    • IF he knows what his doing, and if he know how to its done right. then You will get addicted to the feeling and to the freakin awesome orgasms you get from it. But if not, it will hurt like sh*t and scare you from trying it ever again.. it does hurt ONLY when done wrong, I hope your guy is experienced or at least KNOWS the diff between anal sex and V sex abd read some about it etc .. idk. but practice makes perfect so be patient:) and HAVE FUN, you will love it ;-)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am a guy who has zero interest in ever trying it, its a complete turn off but id say most guys do have an interest in it, whether that is to do with it being a monkey see, moneky do issue from p*rn or not I'm not sure but it is pretty normal for most now. Deffinitly would not consider it something that could be taboo anymore...

    I wouldn't like to try it because for one it'd be gross as f*** to me and id rather be in the other hole and two I don't wanna prolapse her

  • i absolutely love it... the first time I gave it to a girl I guess she bleed for a day or two. And couldn't walk right. She was a FWB thought and I didn't really lube it up as well as I could have. I've never put my d*** into something that was tighter and felt as good.

    • You don't bleed from anal sex and you shouldn't have trouble walking or anything like that at all. You hurt her because your an idiot. wow, just WOW what kind of idiot you are..amazed.

    • you're... And yeah I wanted to see her face when she was in some pain

    • You're pathetic

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  • How bad did it hurt? Not bad, he made it pleasurable.

    Did you bleed? Nope.

    Did you have trouble afterwards? The feeling was weird but no troubles.

    Was it worth it? With the right guy that you trust, yes.

    Is it gross? The thought of it, yes. But it feels so good though so no.

    How bad does it hurt! - It will sting but if he pleasures you at the same time, you'll be more focus on the pleasure than the pain.. Use a lot of lube.. Your spit, his spit.

    • Could you describe the "weird" feeling after? Did it kinda feel as if the d*ck was still in there? Was it weird, but also felt good when You got used to it? Or just weird...