Mi girlfriend enjoys biting really hard. Is that normal?

My girlfriend enjoys biting other people really hard. Some times when we are intimate she ask me to let her bite me and she bites me really hard. She won't easily take a no for an answer and she really seems to enjoy it. And I do not mean of course some light playful biting. I mean biting till it hurts and leaves marks. Is this normal? Why would she enjoy doing something that hurts me? I think this is really strange. What do you think? Does she have a psychological problem or something?
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I was also told by one of her high school friends that she did bite some girls at her school. they certainly did not like it.
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She has done some other crazy things before. Like making fake suicidal threats. I called the cops on her for that reason once. (You can see this question for the full story: link ) Is she psycho? What's your opinion?
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  • My gf loves to bite hard too. I let her bite my which was my fault because we got talking about how much pain we could take, so I told her I don't know my pain threshold and trust me she has sharp small fang teeth and never have I felt pain like that. Plus your gf might be into that sort of stuff, so when she bites too hard just say can you do it a little bit more soft. Just make sure you don't say it in a way which might offend her.

  • She clearly likes hurting people and finds it gratifying. I would be wary. If she likes hurting you when she's in a good mood... Can't imagine what she'd be like in a piss poor mood.

    • When she is pissed she is not physically violent. She just pushes me a bit and hits me with her hand, but not on a way that is painful. I am much much bigger than her, so, maybe that's why I do not find it a big deal or hurtful at all. If she pushes me it has almost zero effect. Her mouth is a different thing. She does not bite when she is mad (thankfully) but she can be quite hurtful with words and screaming and blaming, criticizing, etc.

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  • humm.. weird .. to tell you the truth my ex and I use to bite each other.. he use to leave me bruises on me and love mark. I got back to him by biting his lips and neck and shoulders but only for a bit. after I would only bite his lips once in a while trying to be playful. to tell you the truth I think something might be wrong since you say that her friends say she bites other people as well and not just you

    • Yeah, but she doesn't do it playfully as you and your ex. She will just ask em if she can bit me and will just give me one very hard bite normally she likes biting my biceps because "there is more meat there" she says. She some times bites my shoulders. But its only one bite and really hard. Some times it keeps hurting very bad afterward for some good 10 to 15 minutes and leaves marks and painful areas.

    • I totally understand little playful bites can well be part of foreplay, etc. But this is totally different and it is actually painful. I do not like it, but if I say no she will insist and get her way to biting anyway.

    • hum that is odd mayb a minor psychological problem

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  • Beware cause you might have a Loraina Bobbit on your hands. Just make sure you never cheat on her or force sex on her or you will lose your manhood. To be honest though, that's weird especially cause she liked biting people at school. There was an episode on Nip Tuck where this shrink lady liked to bite people. She was crazy and had issue's. I hope that's not the case with her.

    • That's scary. And I am precisely wondering if she is a psycho or something. Other crazy things that she has done include faking depressive attacks with suicidal threats (I wrote another question about it here: link ) screaming in very high pitch tones when she sees a cute dog on the street, and snoring like a wild animal.

    • She sounds very crazy like seriously. I would be careful if I were you. She may just bite the whole thing off and then plead insanity lol.

    • You are getting me scared already :-s I had never thought it could be this serious.

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  • vampire alert!

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  • That's f***ing weird.

    • I know, right? Do you think she might be psycho or something?

    • I don't know it's really odd though haa.

  • Lmao one of my frnds does this. I don't know why. She says it turns her on. I don't know I guess some people just have weird things they like.

  • Brother... how do i start. It has been scientifically proven that when other people react this way is because they actually need you and truly love you. They have so much love inside of them that they can't find a way to let it out. I know it can be annoying and uncofortable but you actually are releasing neurotoxin and aphrodisiac sex toxins that are making her act this way. I have been researching this kind of behavior myself because i am facing the same problems. But i also was abandoned by my ex wife who i loved more than my own life 2 years after a car accident i had. I also wasn't the best husband but after the accident and some other bad life events and bad decisions i made in life i finally found this girl that i am dating now. It just happened and i was not prepared or fully ready to fall in love. But well somehow it just happened. She also feels the same way. I even think she feels even more than me some times but she is just afraid to let it all out and scare me away. She usually bites me so hard i get bruces all over... but after my past mistakes i had lost the fear of death. I also fell dead inside and people became insignificant for me. Then when she came to my life she brought life and color to it. I work as a bodyguard risking my life every day and now i am stepping down from that life because i am scared to be missing in her life. She needs me and whenever she bites me... that pain makes me feel alive. If you learn to live like me from my own experience you will understand how much she loves you. Don't do anything to hurt her because she might inflict more pain on herself or even on you. If you love her even a little try to understand the reason why she bites you and i can assure you that girl is worth every second of your time.

  • Twi-fan...

    • Im sorry, I do not understand your answer.

  • Really wow,so crazy.

    Stay away from this woman.

  • she sounds insane for sure

  • She's a vampire! But don't send me a bad mesage I'm gust 10 :D

  • I have the same problem with my girlfriend she's likes to bite people in the arm.
    WTF?

    • Really? Does she bite random people or just some specific ones? My ex bited only the people closer to her. Of course that eventually included me.

  • I'm afraid to ask what the blowjobs are like.

    • LOL. Before she gave me a bj for the first time, I was a bit scared to tell the truth, given her biting habits. Fortunately she does not seem to bite while having intercourse of any kind. She normally likes biting after sex or just randomly during the day when we are alone (And a couple of times in public.) She is really bad at doing bj anyway.

    • LMAO! (at the bad BJ skills) She's doing the biting in like a jokingly type way, right? Or is it like a sexual fetish or something?...How old is she?

    • Unfortunately she does not the biting in a jokingly type way... hell it hurts! But it does not seem to be related to a fetish or something. She certainly gets some kind of weird pleasure out of it, but normally she does not get into biting mood during foreplay or anything. She normally does after sex (like 15 or 20 minutes after) and randomly during the day and some times before going to sleep. She is 22 years old at the time. I meet her at age 18 and she was already a biter.