Guys, is it a turn on for girls to be weaker/more frail/delicate?

My last boyfriend used to squeeze my arm and ask my to flex...he got a kick out of the non-existent muscle. lol He loved comparing our hand sizes...the fact that I couldn't lift a lot of stuff or open my own bottles. He loved pinning my arms down during sex too.

Is it just a general turn on to know the girl is smaller and weaker? Example --> link

Are pretty muscular woman also a turn on... Example --> link
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  • The weaker one is more appealing, because I am confident I can operate at her strength level, or rise above it if the occasion needs me to. The second girl looks healthier, which is a plus, but she also appears threatening.

    I don't mind a girl who's smarter or smarter-looking either; just so long as it doesn't get to her head and lead her to think she doesn't need to show me respect. A ditz, depending on how ditzy, can be attractive too. Because she's less likely to judge me if I can't figure something out.

  • Yeah I'm turned on by weaker girls a lot (I would never hurt them, they bring on my masculine protective side) and I'm turned on by kind of muscular girls also (more like well toned) because she looks so fit it makes me think she could ride on top for 20 minutes or more and probably kegel squeeze me to orgasm in 30 seconds if she really wanted to lol.

    • Weaker fragile girls turn me on when they trust me to dominate them without hurting them and nobody else. In exchange I feel obligated to protect them from any emotional and physical harm I can.

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  • My first ex kept comparing our hand sizes. Was trying to figure that out.

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  • I like both. The weaker girls brings out this protective side of me, that makes me feel needed and appreciated. I wouldn't actually call it a turn on, but I do like the feeling. The stronger girls are very sexy, but don't give me the same feelings. Both women are very beautiful. There are lots of different looks that I love on women, and there is no one look that I like best. Beauty comes in many forms.

  • any kind of weakness or delicate signs in a girl are very attractive. guys have a need to protect.

  • eh I like both, I like small girls because you feel like you can break them and thus feel the need to protect them... I like more tomboy girls though because we can play around and wrastle and all that good stuff without me being afraid of hurting her lol so its like a double edged sword... oh and by the way girl in first pic seems unhealthily small (to me, could just be the angle though) second girl= super sexy

  • I wouldn't say its a turn on if a woman I weak but its not really a turn off either. I don't really care much for it, so long as she isn't weak because she is underweight and unhealthy I would happily be there to protect her. I like women with a little meat on her but its not really hot if she was like a body builder

  • I like it. the contrast between a guy's body and girl's body is a turn on for me. I enjoy that she looks weaker or more delicate and gentle. it's fun to 'be the man' and have to open jars and stuff for her even if she could probably do it on her own haha.

    both those girls look pretty to me though but I'd lean more towards the first one.