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Are girls honest about their ex's p*nis size?

Girls if it comes up, would you tell your current boyfriend if an ex had a larger p*nis? Guys have you ever had a girlfriend tell you that one of their ex's had a larger p*nis? It's interesting that most guys I've come across whether asked or they just brought it up all say the same thing, Guy: I'm the biggest my girlfriend has ever been with. Friends: How do you know? Guy: She told me So I was thinking last night, it is pretty impossible that girls constantly progress to sexual partners with bigger d***s and that really from psychological standpoint a girl really has no incentive to tell the truth if in fact she has had boyfriends with bigger d***s
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or girls. do you ever say, "wow you are the biggest I've ever been with"? If you have is this just you being honest or a ploy to inflate their ego
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my god, maybe I framed the question wrong or maybe people just like to assume the worst -women IF the subject came up (for whatever reason) would you tell your boyfriend the truth? -Women have you ever lied and told your boyfriend his p*nis is the biggest you've ever had? -Men do you think women might lie about your size to boost your ego? Don't assume anything about me, because I am more than confident in my size... I know about averages and all that it is a simple psych question
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I appreciate all the responses. I guess the real gist of this question is "Is the occasional white lie in a relationship ok?" Not like lying about being faithful but essentially a lie or misdirection that will avoid a larger and unecessary problem. thanks for all the answers and if people have more perspective or responses keep them coming
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  • I'd be honest. Only one guy has ever asked though. My other bfs never really cared, so maybe I got lucky. I'll tell the simple truth which is yes or no. If he gets insecure, that's his deal. I ll try to reassure him that it doesn't matter and just focus on us as a couple, play into his ego in other ways, but I have my limits. if the insecurity gets out of hand, the claws may come out. I hate that stuff. same with height, men freak out when you're honest about that too.

    we're adults, act like it. no one has time for that sh*t.

    but if he's big, ill tell him. if I say you're big, I'm telling the truth. I've been with guys who have big penises and I wasn't lying. I think most guys who have big ones know that theyre big.

    • thanks!

  • No

    I mean, have you seen the amount of bullsh*t girls on here claim? Almost every girl on here claims that their boyfriend is 8-12 inches long...

    Anyways, perhaps it depends on how she feels about the guy. She might confuse size for him being the best. \

    I mean, I lost my v card to a friends with benefits & I have a boyfriend now. I enjoy sex with him so much more and he's better than the previous. As for size, I'm not hung up on sizes...

    • thanks!

  • I wouldn't tell him the blunt truth, that'd make him feel like crap. I hope he never asks, but I would probably say "I love the way you are" or "You're perfect" or something.

    It's like the "Am I fat?" question, guy's edition.

    On my own I might say "You feel so good" (which is true) but not "You're the biggest I've ever had" (unless he was).

    • Thanks for BA :)

    • Yea, girls always say, "you're perfect," meaning, "you're not the biggest I've had."

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    • Diplomatic dishonesty :( So, why do women say they want honesty again?

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  • I think women are masters at diplomatic dishonesty. They'll say something that is technically true, but that's not really the whole story, so you really can't claim they are lying.

    Women want to believe their current guy is the best in every way. So, when their ex is larger and that's what they prefer, the lies start.

    Now, I don't care what size of any particular ex is. I just care what size she prefers ( not the lies ). If she prefers a man with a large penis, I won't stand in her way from that large penis. She can go out and find that large guy because I really don't have any desire for her and I'll find a gal who prefers what I have. Seems reasonable.

  • Why the HELL would any guy in his right mind ask his girlfriend about her ex boyfriends' penis size?

    If you're stupid enough to ASK that question, then expect to be lied to. No woman wants to deal with a guy who's got penis size issues.

    Now, if she straight out just TELLS you, without any sort of prompting "Your d*ck is so big!" then you can probably presume that she's telling you the truth.

    • "Your d*ck is so big!" then you can probably presume that she's telling you the truth ... this statement you made is precisely what I'm wondering about. If I were a girl I would think this is a great psychological tactic to make the guy feel special when in fact he may be smaller than others she's seen

    • Most women aren't going to think of saying something like that to inflate their man's ego. They're far too preoccupied with what you think of them to worry themselves about what you think they think about you.

    • thanks

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  • I have...not lied about penis size I just work around it. I'll be like ...it's really thick esp if its not very big.

    But if the subject came up like I said previously, I wouldn't say in exactness I'll just once again work around it say something like It was sizable it was meaty lol stuff like that.

  • It Doesn't Come Up Usually And IF It Does I Never Say How Big I Just Big...But Usually It Doesn't Come Up. So I Don't Say Anything. But If My S/O Straight Up Asked...I'd Be Honest...But I Kind Of Get The Same Size Every Time So...It's Not That Big Of A Deal. Lol

  • Yes, I will tell if asked.

    To me bigger doesn't mean better, so my boyfriend would not get jealous.

    • it's kind like the question of do I look fat, or do you have a typical body type question. Even a confident person may have a bout of insecurity (even if you make it clear that size doesn't matter to you) ... I'm well endowed and also very confident about myself and I've never dealt with this firsthand but I imagine I might be a bit insecure if the subject came up

    • Well maybe so. If size mattered all that much, think about it would I really choose a smaller guy? Guys have to secure themselves

    • could same about girls as well. insecurity is part of being a human

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  • A QA already gave this the best answer possible. It's a guy's edition of the "Am I fat? Do I look fat?" argument. There truly is no correct answer. I probably, if HE brought it up, would tell a white lie. I'm not gonna be like: "No babe, I'm sorry, but my ex had at least three inches on you. You still are great though! I love what you do!". . . No. More like, it would be a genious answer like: "You know it." :)

    • 2nd best answer so far

  • I personally wouldn't give a sh*t about something like that. I'm confident in my size and I know what's considered "average" and "large" (just ask Bing or Google lol). confidence and skill will speak volumes over size any day (Ladies can I get an Amen).

    • not trying to be an arse but you didn't really answer my question... has a girl ever said you are the biggest she's ever been with? Or just based on that notion would you think that it is a ploy to inflate your ego or just the honest truth

    • Lol sorry man, I thought the I don't give a sh*t part was a sufficiant answer. But yes, I have heard it, along with performance and girth with just about every girl I've been with. Whether its a lie or not, I don't know man. But as long as they're satisfied and they get theirs in the end, I've done my job..

    • thanks. honestly it's really a question about psychological warfare (for lack of a better term) and I'm just interested in opinions from men and women if they think it is a tactic or whatever

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  • I don't talk about previous boyfriends with current ones. I just don't, why should I? There are no advantages of doing so and quite a few possible disasters in the making. If he'd ask about it I'd just tell him that's a stupid question and no, I won't answer it.

    • good answer. there is no real good that generally comes about talking about ex's

  • Odd for a guy to ask that. However, see how nice we all are...tell you what you want to hear. We know how fragile your egos are...

    • or maybe from the perspective of a guy not asking. I've been with girls who might say something like, "you're the biggest I've ever been with"... I wonder if that is truth or just a ploy to inflate the guy's ego

  • White lies aren't okay. Tell them the truth, and if the partner is right for you, you will be happier with them than anyone else, anyway. "Yes, ex-bf had ____ feature, but it's not important to me anymore and I'm way happier with you than I was with him."

  • I have never spoken about my boyfriends penis size to anyone, sure I have spoken about our love making but that doesn't include that he was 6in or 5 in, just that he gave me an amazing orgasm

    I have heard girls speak about ex or current lovers and use size, which I find unbecoming I don't care about how big or small a penis is. Can you use it and if you are a nice guy and not a "d***"

  • If penis size be the foundation of one's relationship...

    Give me a chair and a beer, because I wanna be there to see the relationship crumble.

    • sooo. women do lie, women are honest?

  • I actually had the awkward experience of having a woman I was hitting on recognize me from her ex girlfriend's stories. When she figured out that I was "the guy from Chicago". She followed it up with "Do you really have a nine inch cock?". I replied that I was of more human proportions, just nimble.

    My wife assures me that if you can't tell a guy his **** is huge, tell him it's beautiful. FWIW she says I have the prettiest **** she's ever wrapped her mouth around.

  • Depends cuzz what if were and bed getting it on and he says "have you ever had a d*** this big give it to you this good?.I'm obviously gonna say no imagine I said yes he'd stop what he was doing..lol

  • Depends on the girl, and her feelings toward her ex. I'm assuming this hypothetical girl probably isn't very mature to begin with, if she's blabbing about her ex's penis to the world. In that case. her ex's penis size would most likely be understated, if not flat out lied about.

    • you've never had p*nis size brought up OR said to a guy wow yours is the biggest I've ever been with?

    • Nobody has ever bluntly asked me about a guy's size before. If they're size is ever brought up, I'm vague about it, because it's no one's business how big/small their d*** is. I don't ever talk sh*t about anyone's body. I also tell guys they're the biggest ever if they're not. I don't say anything about it. I would never tell a guy he had a small penis if he did. I wouldn't lie, though.

    • i wasn't implying you talk sh*t. "I also tell guys they're the biggest ever if they're not." This statement seems to be exactly what I'm talking about. that's the white lie you tell to avoid drama or hurt feelings. Like when a significant other asks "do you that he/she is hot", "do I look fat?", etc

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  • Yeah they are all mostly average except for pencil d*** . If not I generally keep it too myself

  • What the f*** do I care if the girls ex has a bigger d*** than me. As long as she feels satisfied in bed, and she doesn't lie about that part, that's all I really care about.

    • that does answer my question at all. And it's not a matter of whether or not you care... it's just do you think a girl would be honest or would just say whatever to please their dude's ego

  • I have talked about it with serious girl friends before, but not friends with benefits or hook ups. They have all told the thruth. Not the biggest guy they have been with, but bigger than some or most. As guys we all know what we are working with. They may tell a white lie about how much or much more they liked it, but many have also talked about their biggest ones being too big or causing pain. If she is sleeping with me and we are having lots of sex, I can assume she likes what I have to offer or she would not continue to be with me. Some girls want p*rnstar size, but most just want some size and an attentive considerate lover. I have been with girls with bigger boobs or smaller coochies, and I am honest about that as well. Someone before had a bigger or smaller something, just how it goes...

  • When I first long my virginity the guy was probably 10'' tbh, and I told my bff at the time who ended up as my boyfriend for 5 years who had a small d***. No biggie, He suckd my husband now has about 8 and f*** yeeeeeeeaaaa

  • Well I have no idea. I have no idea the size of my ex's penis as I did not see it. Nor did I wish to. I HAVE seen my current boyfriend's penis, but we're both virgins so his wish to know what the biggest size I've been with is kind of invalid.

    But I feel like a girl would of course lie to her boyfriend about it. I mean, he wants to feel all manly and whatnot so if he's like, "Is mine the biggest you've been with?" Of course she's going to say yes. Otherwise he's going to feel bad about himself and we can't have that :p

  • Sure if my boyfriend brings it up. I am not a size queen, all that matters to me is attraction and skill anyway. If my boyfriend asks about skill of my ex's I will just not tell them about the stuff they were better at and mention that no one can lick p**** nearly as well as my current boyfriend. Not even close and that is the truth.

    • so if a boyfriend asked you'd have no problem telling them that he's smaller than an ex you had? regardless of your personal feelings towards size, you'd tell him the truth if an ex had a larger dong?

    • Yes. If he is going to have a hang up about something like then he doesn't know how to please a woman anyway in which case I would not be with him.

    • you're assuming he might be hung up on it. what if he just asks. Let's for the sake of this argument not presume that you're talking about a effed up guy but perhaps a great guy who just casually asks...does that make sense? I'm not trying to be a douche I just get the feeling you're presuming a lot about mental state of the guy rather than him perhaps just asking

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