Blow job fetish???? (guys and girls opinion)

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Okay so here's my question. My boyfriend and I have been dating for years. Before we had sex for the first time I would always think about sucking his dick (the first and only dick I ever sucked) now that we've been together for almost five years I still love sucking his dick. I can't help it! He enjoys it and gets very excited when I do it, sometimes I try to fall back from doing it so much because I don't want to feel or seem like I'm obsessed. Its like the thought of doing it makes my mouth water lol (literally). It gets me sooo wet and excited! I mean I don't care if he's sleeping I'll start off giving him a kiss goodnight or something and next thing you know I'm in his pants ready to eat him up... He don't complain or anything but its starting to bother me the fact that I can't stop myself. I feel like a dick stalker! LMAO. We could be sitting down watching a movie again there go my hands then my head... I know plenty of girls enjoy giving oral sex but damn do I have a problem?! Advice from both guys and girls would help!

lefthand · Accepted Answer

Ummm...no. A fetish is a non sexual item (such as shoes, leather, stockings) that MUST be present in order for you to become sexually excited. Given the that a dick is, in fact, sexual, it really isn't a fetish item. It is normal and healthy to enjoy it and the reaction is fairly normal. I know a lot of women who deeply enjoy sucking dick and will do it without reciprocation just for the fun of it. I know more than one who can climax as a result of sucking off someone they really like.

I'm similar in that I feel the same way about cunnilingus. When I see an attractive woman, I wonder what she would taste like and what she would look like when she comes. I have had sex a number of times where I didn't even take my clothes off and counted it as good.

Your boyfriend lucked out, he found a winner.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

OMG... You are like the female me. I feel exactly that way, maybe even more, about... you know what... ;) (tease)

No girl that is far from a problem... That is a blessing... OMG this made my day...

Your boyfriend is a really lucky guy.

I dream about it every single day...

BabyDoll85 · Accepted Answer

omg I'm not the only woman that's mouth waters and gets wet at the thought of/giving oral. I love it and my guy loves it so I've just never worried about it. but no hun you don't have a problem as long as its making ya'll both happy there's not a thing wrong with it...

just keep doing what you have always done I know I will.

i hope I was of some help for you.

ActingOnInstinct · Accepted Answer

I totally feel for you. All my friends always told me how "dirty" and "gross" giving blowjobs made them feel. So when I finally did it, I thought I was really strange for enjoying it. Needless to say, my boyfriend loves me for loving it, as I'm sure yours does as well.

CheekyBoomBoom · Accepted Answer

Girl you don't have problem,  I'm my boyfriend's personal porn star ! As long as you both enjoy it there's no issue.  It doesn't matter where me and my boyfriend at I do everywhere, from him driving the car to the movie theaters...lol.

elle1 · Answer

lol he must have a nice dick! sorry I don't have that problem. I wish I did. lol

l-hedoniste · Answer

You like sucking d*ck. Your man likes when you suck d*ck. You're likely to continue to enjoy sucking d*ck, and your man is likely to continue to enjoy it.

If there's a problem here, I've totally missed it.

Camilus · Answer

I dated a girl with an oral fetish and I had no complaints.

spyderman · Answer

Is this for real? If so, are there more girls like you in this world?  All I ask for is a tall ship and a star to steer her by -- John Masefield.

p-guy · Answer

You are a mans dream... don't change anything! You know what they say.. If at first you don't suckseed, keep on sucking till you do suckseed... I am guessing you suck a lot of seed:)

Wgatap999 · Answer

Trust me there's absolutely nothing wrong with you worshiping and sucking his cock as much as you like to. The girl I'm with she absolutely can't get enough of sucking my cock. I told her it was hers she's more than welcome as long as there's no kids around in public or something like that but she's more than welcome to grab it stroke it suck it and if we're not at home please swallow and she does every time. She has the same thing like you do her mouth gets really wet can't get it out of her head and all she wants to do is wrap her mouth around it and suck it and give me pleasure and of course I absolutely love eating her pussy. I say keep doing it it's not a problem enjoy it that is your man obviously he has a nice looking cock that you find absolutely delicious. Keep sucking

BikingTrail · Answer

The only problem here is that I'm not married to you. Thats the hottest post I've read on here. It would be my ultimate dream come true to be with a woman who couldn't stop thinking about sucking me

debsman · Answer

Would you enjoy it if he was to go down on you as often ? If so, that kinda answers your question. I don't think you have a problem...enjoy yourself.

seannabear23 · Answer

i also love it. I don't think that it is a problem. I mean guys love it and I love it, so why would there be a problem? there is no problem so don't stress

ILoveCefalu · Answer

Speaking as a fellow chick, I one day hope to have your love of the brother down south. You probably just have a slightly higher sex drive than normal, which is normal. Overall, as long as your boyfriend doesn't complain, don't sweat it. And kudos to you for mastering the one-eyed snake.

hunglowman4you · Answer

Are you a "cancer" month and day you were born?

jacquesvol · Answer

Don't worry: as long as he likes it it's OK (and 99% of the other men would like  it too)

OrangeBoy · Answer

He understands you, we all go crazy about some particular things. Just enjoy it :)

If he say that does not want, you just slap the guy, use a rope and do the bj... im kidding. We will never get tired i think...

john2 · Answer

I feel you on that, but in reverse lol. I love going down on girls, but only girls that I'm serious with.

MarlinsBB112 · Answer

marry me haha

Pinksissy · Answer

Girl I love them just like you!! It makes my mouth water omg I love giving bjs

Mr_Sterling · Answer

Hmmmm, might be an aquarius thing, im aquarius and love to the point of obsession performing cunnilingus! So who knows.

Peeeps · Answer

So would u suck my dick'...

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 25 and I have a 'thing' for giving blowjobs. When I was younger, I did it far more often than I should have and got a little bit of a reputation. Nowadays I take pleasure in pleasuring my boyfriend as often as he likes.

Anonymous · Answer

I love to do this as well. I guess I get some sort of self satisfaction being able to get him off. Its like its a small confidence booster or something. I like to make him feel good and want him to know that, so maybe that's why you like to do it so much as well.

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