Probably an old question but I wanna way in here as someone with a fairly serious interest in Milfs. M.I.L.Fs or cougars, usually refer to women over 40 who already have kids, likely in their teens. The term has derogatory connotations in the fact that some see it as objectification but in actual fact it can seen as one of the biggest compliments an older woman can receive as it reaffirms the fact the woman in question is just as attractive, if not more attractive than younger counterparts.
Women in their 30s who are premilfs are commonly known as Pumas. As for women in their 20s and below who have kids can be known as M,I,L,Fs purely for the mother aspect but this is a misappropriation of the term as the older aspect of the women is what were the original stipulations for the term.
As far as I see it girls under say 20 with kids aren't attractive and to me personally I find the Idea incredibly unattractive, but that is my personal belief and preference, which doesn't have any real existence within the context of this question so I am sorry if it has offended any one.
Firstly, 'MILF' is kind of an in-joke for the male sex. We're not ENTIRELY serious about it all.
For many guys, it's more of a compliment than a fetish. It's not that they're more attracted to mothers. 'MILF' is just another way of saying 'hot woman who happens to be a mother'.
Generally, though, if a guy says he's really attracted to MILFs, he's not saying that he's attracted to mothers in general. He's saying that he's attracted to a certain kind of older woman: an older woman who's emotionally mature, open with herself as a sexual being, talented at sex, horny, and still has her good looks because of a healthy lifestyle.
mothers usually AREN'T attractive to teens,having a baby can't take a toll on your looks if you stop trying,which most do (they have better things to think about,so duuh) so when they're REALLY attractive,MILF just serves as a ''she's hot AND a mother!'',it's just rare
i think a Milf is an middle aged woman that looks good and is wanted by younger guys, like her teenage kids guy friends.
it helps when she puts her t*ts online for everyone to see...
LOL
i had to look closer lol
I gave you best answer so you can save up some points and maybe get some of your own since your so insecure and jealous :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!MILF is a term that was spread around in popular culture by "American Pie."
The term refers to a woman that the speaker wants to sleep with that also happens to be a mom.
"That she is a mom" is not necessarily the driving force behind this desire, though I suppose it could be for some.
The term you're looking for is 'cougar' lol
Its just that you didn't lose your attractiveness just because you had a kid
Because its a fantasy of guys to have a mom (associated with nurturing, and loving) be a freak in the sheets. Besides, be grateful. You are still hot.
It's just the way how some guys are being gross and cracking up about it, no big deal
Well the fact that you flaunt your boobs don't help you
Guys can be stupid. That's all it really means
It means you're hot to them and if you are a single mother, they know you put out. Usually, guys refer to older women when they say milfs though. That's for a slightly different reason.
"How is being a mother and having a drooling, fussy, Baby in my arms attractive in the slightest?"
It's not...in the slightest. The mothers that are MILFs are typically a little older and don't have young children in the picture. There's nothing sexy about that.
Think cougar.
"How is being a mother and having a drooling, fussy, Baby in my arms attractive in the slightest?"
It's not.
You're mistaken in thinking all mothers are milfs.
They aren't.
You're a milf because you're still sexually attractive - the fact that you're a mother is just incidental.
Obiously
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