Sexually attracted to family members? What do I do?

I'm sexually attracted to some of my family members, like my cousins, my aunt, even my sister. I watch incest p*rn to get hard, what can I do? Should I just give in to my desires, or is there some way to fix my sexuality.
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Thanks a lot guys, it really helps. And I am completely serious BTW, unfortunately it is already rumored in my school I want my sister, and I did tell my best friend about it. And my father already knows, but he leaves things for me to work out on my own so not a problem. I haven't actually done anything to anyone yet so it's good your telling me now.
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  • It is probably the hormones...

    I had a crush on one of my cousins when I was little, before I knew they were off limits.

    But in all seriousness... DO NOT ACT ON IT! DO NOT ACT ON IT! You will, in all seriousness, permanently mess-up your life now and set your adult life on a very bad course. Yes, you are not 18 yet, but it will still follow you. Besides, if anyone finds out... which EVERYONE will find out (especially if you touch your sister or cousins), you will be ostracized, condemned, and treated horribly as long as people know your secret. I don't think you want something like this to follow you.

    STOP WATCHING THE PORN! You are feeding your problem!

    Talk to someone... seriously. Think about what would happen and how your sister, cousins, parents would feel if they have a son who became a sex offender. Or the embarrassment if one of them got pregnant by a family member...! Acting on it not only destroys your life, but theirs as well! I know you're not a sex offender and that you have come on here to reach out for help. I'm just trying to add some perspective to what would happen if you acted on it.

    The biggest thing you can do is talk to someone- an adult, school counselor, or even an adult at church (if you know someone you can trust or go to church). Part of getting help is informing someone of your problem so they can help you stay accountable. The other biggest thing is stop watching the p*rn! You are making it worse!

    Seriously, good luck!

    And I'm not trying to be harsh... I have no idea what it's like to be a teenage boy. Maybe this is normal...all I know, is acting on it is NOT normal and NOT something you should do!

    • I realize I'm being a bit emphatic compared to the others... but I was molested when I was younger and there's a sex offender in my family. I can't tell you how much damage will happen if you act on it. All the others are probably correct that it is normal and it will pass. It just scares me that you're considering acting on it.

    • How are things coming along? Are you doing any better? Have you talked to someone that can stay invested and keep you accountable? I know I don't know you, but you worried me. Just checking to see if you're doing okay.

  • You'll get out of your weird unhealthy phase.

    Perhaps maybe you don't feel worthy or attractive for other girls who aren't related to you.

    Don't think about it and most importantly, stop watching that shit.

  • It's just those young hormones at work! Just see to it that it never goes any further than just thinking about it!

Most Helpful Guys

  • There are more and more cases of sibling incest being reported as the social pressures to being able to perform sexualy at a young age increase. While boys typicaly have always been driven by strong hormone changes, young females more and more are turning to a trusting brother to learn how to perform oral and vaginal sex so she can seemingly gain more confidence for a future relationship. Now as older adults, my sister and I on occasion make jokes about our early experimentations, It has never led up to any thing negative and has given us a good connection with each other.

    • First, you mean it's not bad? Second, what do you mean by experimenting, how far did you guys go?

    • I was also wondering that, I thought it was pretty bad, and would ruin a persons life.

  • I remember having somewhat of a crush on my youngest cousin when I was like about 7 years old. I remember telling my Mom about it and she explained to me she's your cousin and nothing could ever come of it, but I still had the crush. Those feelings go away eventually.

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  • It's just your hormones dude. When I was younger, I was attracted to a couple cousins. Eventually I grew out of that phase and haven't looked at female family members like that. Besides, almost all females in my family are batshit crazy haha. Kidding.

    If it continues to be a problem or you think you'll act on it, talk to somebody about it. Preferably an adult you can trust outside your family. Maybe a school counselor.

  • There's incest p*rn?

  • It's probably just a phase. So don't act on it. Teenage boys are weird.

  • Well the first thing you do is STOP watching incest p*rn. Get the thoughts out of your head. Watch other p*rn instead. Train yourself to not get into those fantasies.

    DO NOT ACT ON ANY OF IT. Stop talking to friends about it.

  • I don't believe this is real, but I'll answer just in case.

    Stop looking at incest p*rn. It's only going to fuel your desires even further. If you find yourself ogling your relatives, look away and find something else to occupy your mind with. If that's too difficult, then maybe you should stop hanging out with them until you start crushing on women who aren't relatives.

  • You are still under 18 could just be a phase. Just spend some times with some girls.

  • Incest happens much more often than people realize. Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it is consensual.

    • i agree will you message me?

  • That is VILE

    Stop watching incest p*rn.

  • Well, crazy stop watching that vile incest p*rn what are you some kind of inbred hillbilly such fellings are taboo for sure. I mean a third cousin who is hot I don't mind that kind of monogamy but for an aunt or sister that is just wrong

    • Sex when done for any other purpose other than reproduction is merely a form of masturbation, be it oral, vaginal or what-other. The mental state of mind is quite different as well for in masturbation the door to fantasies and imagination swings wide open. Chances are the participants in such incest materials have no real relationship but the suggestion of them having so plays into that mental state and it is accepted as true for the sake of fantasy.

  • I heard that was normal.

  • You just have the raging hormones of a teenager... nothing surprising about that. Whatever you do, though, DO NOT act on your desires. Keep them to yourself, or things will end badly for you. This too shall pass.

  • dude go to a shrink before something bad happens.