Honestly i don't really know what to do. I have no one to talk to. I love him so much, i love him more than anything in this world. I know this is not what he wanted but he did it for me because he knows it is unfair on me (LDR) but i don't care about me. I love him so much... I said no when he is breaking up with me. Andd i swear i'll have him back, i'll do anything. I just don't know what i should do now, i am so hurt and scared. I don't want tto lose him. ...anyone, help me?
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How long were u together? We're u in a relationship with him before it became LDR? If it's always been long distance have u guys ever spent any time together? If so how often? Why did he have such a big impact on u?
It really may not be fair to EITHER of u. You're both young and being attached to someone u never see makes it that much harder. U both have lives to live. He may want to go out and not have to worry that he's cheating on u. Which to me means he's a decent enough guy to NOT cheat. If u've pleaded with him not to break things off and he's still adamant then that's what's best. Would u rather him be with u out of pity and him feel guilty for everything that he does? The best way to go about this is to stay broken up but still date. Get together every once in a while but leave the emotions in check. This way u can still do what u both want to do. If he still doesn't go for it then it's best to move alone now rather than invest urself further and hurt urself more.
Best of luck sweetie.0
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