I am a stubborn person.
The thing is I love my ex. I care about him as a person we've known each other for 8 years and he still visits me (I live in another state) and we are super compatible. The only reason why I am searching for something else is because I wanted to test the waters and see what else is out there if I could find better I guess. Of course I could be more in love with somebody other than my ex (even though I do love my ex) but honestly I'm not sure.
I've tried dating. Nothing works. All the guys I date treat me like crap -- it makes me think that maybe my ex was for me?
Am I just single and desperate? Am I lonely? Am I settling?
I honestly do think I can't get anybody or can't find anybody better and to add onto it I care about my ex...
If more guys approached me I'd be willing to date them but since my dating life sucks I want to go back to my ex and I think I could be pretty happy if I did.
Honestly is it normal that I"m thinking this way? What should I do? Thanks
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You are desperate and I sure lonely and settling but the market you have to choose from is crap. I have been in your shoes and what I did was leave the USA and found pay dirt or gold. Women don't have that option unless they are Black and Europe is a hot spot for educated Black women. I know quite a few very good guys but they are being chased and are church goers and women hate good men. Women want a man with the qualities of the devil in them but will treat them as if they had a christian upbringing.
You don't sound like you have many options.1