My ex and I dated for 2 years but she left me for her current bf. They have been together for a year and I have not seen my ex in a year. We have not spoken in 9 months. I noticed she unblocked my Facebook a month ago. Then yesterday she sends me a random email about my dog who died about a year ago. She already said sorry for his death 9 months ago.
She said how sorry she was and so on. I sent a nice reply saying we should catch up. Her reply was that she was shocked I even responded. She thought I was still mad at her for everything. She wrote me with the intention that I wouldn't respond. She says she can't catch up because of her bf.
An hour later she calls saying her bf let her. She claims it was a closure phone call after a year of our break up. She was concerned how I felt about her and told me to stop hating her. She also said when we hang up we won't talk again for awhile because of her bf. She was so excited to talk to me and when I cut the call short she sounded sad.
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She contacted you because her current relt'p is breaking and she wants to feel safe and love again to cover her heartaches and boost her self-esteem/ego..
1st of all, she left you for her current bf.. It means, she was not deeply inlove or fully invested on you.. She says she can't catch up because of her bf.. It just really means she loves her current bf than you but now her bf let her (or *left* her you mean?) then she's trying to come back to you again, knowing you showed interest on her by replying nice message that makes her think that you still like her..
I can sense that she's just having "trial and error" in relt'p. And she's just going to whoever loves/likes her and it's up to her to choose.. I bet if she finds another guy to which she likes, she will left you again and go with another guy. then if her relt'p with that will fall off, she might start to contact and come back to you again (specially if you showed you're still interested on her after all) just so she might feel safe and loved to cover up her heartaches from other guy..
I've known some (my sibling and friend) experience relt'p like this that's why i can sense the cycle or behavior of this type of girl/relt'p.0