My ex broke my heart in August 2013; I took him back for a couple months (Nov-Feb) and he left again. I've tried moving on; I meet with a therapist weekly, I am on anxiety/depression meds, I workout often, got back into my hobbies, etc, but I still miss him like crazy. I thought he was the one..
The worst part — I know he doesn't give a damn about me, and likely doesn't miss me at all. He had a new girlfriend three weeks after leaving me in February . Am I pathetic? Advice for letting go? I feel like I'm never going to find love again :(
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That is a good question to witch there are many answers. First off realize that you did nothing wrong he has something inside of him that made him feel inadequate, and he tried to fix that by hurting you. Secondly you may ask your self why you why out of every one did he have to do it to you well that's simple you were an easy target for him to essentially use to make himself feel better about him and he had already done it once so the second time was easier. Thirdly no not all men are like him and just because he did something bad doesn't mean the next guy will to; both men and women can be cruel in your case it was a man. Forth except that he is not a part of your life and that yes you are better off with out him and know that he will regret hurting you because now he has no one that will really care for him like you did. Fifthly instead of taking your frustration out on yourself take it out on something you can do for you go punch a punching bag get angry that he did something bad to you, go buy a bb-gun put a pic of him up and shoot it for a wile, go do things that will let you put the frustration of him hurting you on something other than yourself. Sixth realize that him leaving you was the best thing for you. You don't need someone that will not only hurt you once, but twice. That being said know you are the bigger person for giving him a second chance with you and it really is his fault for hurting you. People do deserve second chances sometimes it's his loss and your gain in this situation though. Now take some deep breaths be single for a wile enjoy the freedom vent some frustration out on other things rather than yourself and live for a better tomorrow because you can make it threw this. Hope this helps you feel better and helps you move on and live better for you.0