Ex confronted my dad about our relationship and now he's upset with me?
What Guys Said 4
Live your life ! Screw the archaic religious rights and wrongs. Religion should not be about control !
Your dad is mad because it was embarassing. An older guy dont get told of or be embarassed coming from a little guy.
I know you were scared, and couldnt speak up for yourself. Somehow your dad needs to know you broke up with him and the traps.
My advice is this: find a good guy friend that is prolly your dad respect. If you have an older brother even better. Or look for a guy cousin you trust that is in esteem of your father. Tell and talk with your guyfriend about it and ask for his advice and help. He can talk to your dad about it.
Or look for an uncle or a friend of your dad to talk about this. Tour dad must know that kid was a player and that you did a noble thing to break up with him.. if you did kiss or slept with him then I don't know how to help you but im guessing good you didn't. Anything else please ask.
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Talk to him, say u are sorry, hug him and promise him u'll not do anything reckless again :)
That's sad I'm sorry ;(
What Girls Said 3
what a fucking asshole =/
I don't know, I mean... your family sounds kinda unreasonably strict =/ I mean I've known muslim immigrant families, they don't send, or threaten to send, their kids to their home country for stuff like that! I don't know I mean I don't wanna talk badly of your family or nothing but, it feels wrong to me that you are afraid of what your father will do to you, like =/
Anyway, I don't know. Tough it out, I guess. He'll come around! I don't think there is anyone who has never been haram at all. If he stopped talking to everyone just for doing sth haram he'd talk to no one at all! He'll come around, probably, in a few days. Men of all religions can be real touchy about their daughters, ey? Just preoccupy yourself for a few days, don't worry about him.
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