Should I initiate contact with ex if I want them back?

My ex and I have been off and on for about a month. He was acting really distant and so I finally stopped responding to his texts. His last text just said hello and this was 3 days ago.

Every time we fight I always am trying to express my love for him so we can make up. But I don't know if I should do it this time. I want to see if he really wants me. I really want him back and want him to want me.

Should I wait it out a little longer so he can reach out to me again or should I just initiate contact?


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What Guys Said 1

  • You should let go so both of you can move on.


What Girls Said 1

  • It doesn't sound like two of you are that stable to begin with. You and him are both playing games which is childish. Secondly, what's the point of getting back together if you are not going to fix the problems. You shouldn't have to WORK at getting someone to want you. If he is showing you that he isn't interested, then maybe take it for what it is and find someone who is interested. Good luck.


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