So my ex messaged me the other day asking if I wanted to talk. She said she wanted to cause she missed me. So we did and we flirted a lot. Then I texted her the next morning saying that I couldn't stop thinking about her. She said that she wasn't ready to get back together yet. I was shocked and I responded by saying asking her why. She just wasn't and she asked me if I wanted to flirt. I said it wasn't a good idea because she wasn't ready to be with me. And then the other day I issued an ultimatum of sorts saying that she couldn't be single while having me. She was upset and now I'm wondering if I've pushed her away for good. Did I do the right thing? Should I have just kept flirting with her?
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You did the right thing. I would give her space so it gives you time to figure out if you really want her back or not. Be careful that you want her back for the right reasons though. you may want her back because you miss the attention and not because you miss the happy moments you had together. Think about why you two broke up in the first place and if its because always fought or because one of you didn't no what you wanted then its time to move on. If she wants to date other people or flirt with other people while you two are together I don't think you should go back.0