How would you behave if you knew you were going to an event where your Ex will be with their new significant other?

Imagine it's an outdoor event with roughly around 20-40 people.
How would you react upon meeting them?


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  • I'd make sure I look amazing, I'd introduce myself to his new SO and I'd be friendly. Not saccharine or anything, but just "oh hey, good to see ya" type of thing. Then go and socialise and hopefully not get piss drunk and make a fool of myself.

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What Girls Said 7

  • If I HAD to go meaning he already knew I was going then I know I would be like "Sup!" Lol that's just me though...and yes he did hurt me too which gives me more courage to stay strong in his presence. But try and get a date first.

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  • i would ditch it..cause no matter how many times u tell ur slef u dont care.. in the end u hate ur self for not avoiding the awkwaard situaution that happened

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  • just the normal me.. i don't think they would affect me whatsoever especially if i'm the one who leave him cause it means i have zero romantic feelings for him anymore. i'd even be so happy to see him and his new SO. :)

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  • I wouldn't say hi if we ended on bad terms but otherwise hi how are you, then carry on enjoying myself. Forget my ex haha

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  • i will be accompanied by my bf..and will ignore my ex (because he really hurt me)

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  • I wouldn't care that much. I'd be sure to look really good, but I really don't care about my exes.

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  • I would just say hi and leave it at that. I'm friends with all of my ex boyfriends at this point, the only one that took a long time to be friends with was my first ex and it took us about three years to be friends again but now we are just fine. So if I'm going to something and they are there I'll definitely talk to them, because i want to be able to talk to my friends.

    I've never been friends with any of their significant others, except for one, but I have to be around them I just say hi or whatever when I'm introduced to them and just leave it at that.

    I have no reason to be pissy with them and I'll never dislike a person just because they're dating my ex, that's always been dumb to me, if I'm not dating them then anyone can. Acting rude or like you're better than them is petty so I would never do that.

    As my grandparents say in my old fashioned family, you court people to get to know them and if it doesn't work out then that's the end if that, no reason to forget our manners.

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What Guys Said 3

  • I'd behave exactly as I normally would. My ex's are in the past. If I saw her, I'd probably smile and/or say "Hi" then continue on my way. Dwelling on such trivial things unnecessarily complicates one's life.

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  • I'd probably just try to friendly enough but am not going to go over and beyond. I don't want to be weird or distant or whatever because (as vain as it may sound) I don't want them to think that our break up has changed who I am. so I'd essentially try to be myself. I wouldn't avoid talking to her but wouldn't seek her out

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  • Try and laugh and have a great time. Try and avoid looking over at them aswell, if you do happen to make eye contact, simply wave or say hi, and continue to act normally. Talk to some girls and laugh if need be.

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