She is heavyset and has these huge gauged earrings in her ears and her hair is all funky colors and she's all tattooed, extremely loud and vulgar and a lot of people like her. Other than the funky colors she is blonde and he keeps telling me how much he loves dark hair and dark eyes which is what I have.
I am very thin and fit and have long dark brown hair, I wear designer and fashionable clothes. I'm a bit more reserved personality wise, extremely introverted and I admit it seems like we are a much better match.
But why the heck was he ever with her? She is just too vastly different. They moved in together not long after a year together and then got a dog, which he keeps. They're still "good friends" according to him, and she's in a new relationship now.
In the beginning he used to go out of his way to tell me when he saw her, and I finally spoke up and was like, you talk about her so much. He also used to point out other girls being pretty and all that early on. Now he's totally stopped. Not sure if it was a tactic to make me jealous?
He has been moved back in with his parents for a couple years now and has whined plenty of times about wishing he could afford his own place, and how it would be so much easier with someone else like as in a couple... Interesting.
We aren't dating but I'm on the fence about anything with him. The ex thing still bugs me, and perhaps it still would but it wouldn't perplex me as much if we weren't so different, and it wasn't a fling...