I met this guy about a month and a half ago but at the time he was transitioning out of a relationship so nothing ever happened. About 2 weeks ago we saw each other at a party and he ended up coming home with me and we've literally been together everyday and night since then. i'm typically the kind of girl who likes her space and especially likes to take things slow so its taken me by surprise but when we're together its just so natural and I can be myself and it just feels right. He told me the other night that even though we've only been together for 2 weeks he's never felt this way about anyone before including his ex who he was with for two years. he tells me everyday how lucky he feels that he's with me and that he really likes me and he looks at me like he might be in love with me. He's only been broken up with his ex gf for about a full week but he's been hinting at us becoming official in the veryyy near future. He says emotionally and physically the relationship ended way before he actually broke up with her. Do you think I should go for it if he asks me to be his girlfriend? And is it possible that we could be in love? it almost feels like we're soulmates.
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Be careful, he's in a honeymoon phase right now. All the sh*tty emotions of his stale ex-relationship suddenly got washed away by the endorphins and oxytocin overloading his system and he is literally high as a kite. You cannot trust these intense feelings to be long-lasting just yet.
However, there's no reason not to jump into the relationship boat with him. Just be aware that this "crazy in love" phase is just that - a temporary state that is highly likely to pass. You will eventually bore of seeing each other every. single. day. and the things that bother you will begin to stand out more.
Love is what follows when people stick together through many honeymoon and cooldown phases.
Go ahead and get official if you feel comfy with it, but be aware that you are the "rebound." It's not game over, just be conscious of the fact that emotions are taking control right now, and you'll need to adjust as the relationship moves forward : )
Good luck to you!1