My bf of 5 years broke up with me 6 days ago after his parents divorce. He said he didn't think he could ever love or commit again but if he could he'd be with me only. Well I'm home from college and we live in a small town. I was stopped at a light and he pulled up beside me, although I don't think he saw me. He looked really sad and like he hadn't slept/shaved in days. I've started 30 day NC and haven't talked to him since that day but I'm really worried about him and want to know if he's okay.Im not wanting to contact him to get back together because I think it's best for him to get used o his situation but I'm worried.
- Should I break NC and contact him?Vote A
- Wait for 30 days NC then contact him?Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should let him know you're there for him even if you're not with him. It's perfectly reasonable for him to feel like love is a lie, but you can be his friend during this hard time, and since you have such a long history, maybe you can show him he can in fact love again.0
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