I broke up with the guy I was seeing this past week. It was the best for us both because we didn't see eye to eye on a certain subject. Boundaries were also passed. However now I'm dealing with missing him, my feelings for him, and resentment. The break up and not having him around any more is all I think about and it's sickening me and might ruin my relationships with others because I'm isolating myself. Other than going out with my friends what else can I do to get this off my mind?
What are your ways to get over a painful breakup? Any healthy coping mechanisms? Females and males welcome to reply!!! :)
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Breaking up is hard to do, as the old saying goes, and nothing says the after effects are going to be easy, sweetie. But as time goes on, and each day passes, you will have licked each wound, and have finally moved on, for the pain of no gain would have moved on as well.
Everything is still fresh in your mind and your heart right now. And being things didn't seem as though they were going anywhere, you did the right thing.
Yes, anyone at this given moment, Whom you would take up company with, would indeed be just a Rebound, so just concentrate on yourself for awhile, do some soul searching, and don't get right back into the swing of any Thing until you feel you are ready and are able to handle it. No one will win, and someone always ends up getting hurt.
And no one was willing to compromise, I believe you both did what you thought was best...It was Not healthy for either one of you.
When you are feeling up to it, go out with your friends again and at least socialize. It will get you out and about, for sitting home just moping and mopping up the tears is not healthy, neither.
You'll get through this, I promise. I can tell you are strong. For you to have Even been smart enough to see you both were not' seeing eye to eye,' tells me you are even stronger to endure what will be a brand new life and future for you.,
Good luck, I am holding your hand...I feel what you do...xxx0