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Because there is no such thing as ''friendship'' between a man and a woman. The so called friendship you're referring is just an illusion of yours and every other woman's.
I don't get why some girls think that someone can just forget months or years of a strong relationship and expect the lad to be just your friend. Sorry, but you're an idiot for thinking it was that easy.
the guy is obviously very hurt by the break up and would find it incredibly hard to just be platonic friends with you, so he's decided not to - good for him.
Let him be.
My guess is that seeing you hurts too much. It's too confrontational for him. Seeing you reminds him of what he doesn't have anymore, that he lost something that meant incredibly much to him. He wants to avoid dealing with that pain, probably believes that because of that pain, friendship between you simply isn't possible anymore.
I don't think what he's doing is right, for him or for you. These things are incredibly hard to deal with, but pain is as much a part of life as happiness.
However, I can also understand that he might feel that if he can't be with you romantically, he can't be with you at all. Perhaps it's simply something he wishes for too much.
I don't know what forced you to break up with him, but it sounds to me like you meant a whole lot more to him than you realize. You're not just another ex to him, and so he can't move on the same way he did with his other ex girlfriends.
we still want them and can't stand them talking to other guys
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