The weeks leading up to the finale of bullshit he was telling me how much of a bad person he is, how I deserve better, and he wants to be able to be with other girls including his friend (who I found out from her bf and my best friend he was cheating with). Turns out one of the reasons he didn't leave me was because she ended up picking her boyfriend and uses the excuse he didn't wanna go through a break up alone. The other girl was supposed to leave her bf but she chickened out though apparently
After he was distraught and would cry about her asking for reassurance about her and admitted they loved each other.
Meanwhile after I found out for sure he created, I know I shouldn't have but I hooked up with one of my friends. We didn't plan on it but we both started to get feelings for each other.
At the same time my bf is telling me it was drugs that made him act that way and he wants to be sober. But I'm not sure. I don't believe him and I think he will continue to disappoint me. He always promises to chance, does for several months and does something to make me mad. This one by far was the most heart breaking that caused me to miss weeks of work & 15 lbs in 2 weeks
He keeps manipulating me how a narcissist does. :(0
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You leave him. You have the power to stay or to leave. He can't force you to stay. He'll never change. Stop wasting your time, energies, and emotions. Start a new chapter.