Most Helpful Girl
Personally, I would have probably done the same, but... This is because early in a relationship I never know if I really really like the guy and how long it will last. I would HATE to be with someone, take their virginity and then decide, OK, this isn't working, for whatever reason, because then you've taken something you can't give back and you weren't the special person they had been waiting for. I'd feel obliged to stay with you just for this reason. Not saying it's right, just giving you my opinion in if we're me.
Most Helpful Guy
This woman is not soul mate material. Neither is she a long term, meaningful relationship material, either.
She did you a favor by telling you that. You should be happy.
Don't go chasing the wrong women, because that is exactly what you are doing. Do not delude yourself. Always listen to your instincts- even though they will douse the hot fires of lust, they will never lead you astray.