Should I break up with her? Someone I care for cause of this?
I am havin a tough time if I should break it off with my gf of 10 months? We live 40 miles away from each other.Which isn’t bad, but I do 99% of the travelin (she has only been out my way 3 times – didn't come for Xmas/Easter either).Reason bein is she lives on her own & I live at home.Which I get I should be doing more visitin to her since she lives on her own.Maybe 70% me travel 30 her, but it is at 99 me 1% her.Travelin 40 miles EACH WAY 2 days a week (80 miles per trip-$70 per week in gas) is startin to take a toll on me.#1 I have put 10.2K miles on my leased car I just got 7 months ago (only allowed 12K per year,#2 i am not the best financially to be the only 1 doing the travelin & #3 it is just getting so repetitive doin the same trip & havin to spend my weekends in the same exact place for 10 straight mnths.I said I need u to mayb come out my way once a week cause of those 3 situations above.She got all upset sayin that I should be the 1 travelin cause she lives on her own (this is her #1 like argument of why I shld be travelin). She started cryin sayin that I didn't care for her & I was just trying to cut the days down I see her & she started sayin it wasn’t feasible for her to meet cause she works 30 min in the oppo direction as me.We have been on this topic for 2 weeks & she just won't see my point.I only went over 1 time last week (if she isn't goin to work with me I have to do what I have to do),& said that it is not the same cause I was only over 1 day.I said come to me whenever! We dont have to go to my house we can go out for dinner, a movie, a drink! She said I can’t give her what she needs by coming once a week.That I am not the guy she thought I was, & that I didn't love her anymore (all of which is untrue).What makes this tough is besides this (and her not visiting my fam on the holidays ) we have not had 1 argument ever! It was completely perfect! She cooks for me, gives me a nice place to stay & has been a lovin gf to me.
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