I am havin a tough time if I should break it off with my gf of 10 months? We live 40 miles away from each other.Which isn’t bad, but I do 99% of the travelin (she has only been out my way 3 times – didn't come for Xmas/Easter either).Reason bein is she lives on her own & I live at home.Which I get I should be doing more visitin to her since she lives on her own.Maybe 70% me travel 30 her, but it is at 99 me 1% her.Travelin 40 miles EACH WAY 2 days a week (80 miles per trip-$70 per week in gas) is startin to take a toll on me.#1 I have put 10.2K miles on my leased car I just got 7 months ago (only allowed 12K per year,#2 i am not the best financially to be the only 1 doing the travelin & #3 it is just getting so repetitive doin the same trip & havin to spend my weekends in the same exact place for 10 straight mnths.I said I need u to mayb come out my way once a week cause of those 3 situations above.She got all upset sayin that I should be the 1 travelin cause she lives on her own (this is her #1 like argument of why I shld be travelin). She started cryin sayin that I didn't care for her & I was just trying to cut the days down I see her & she started sayin it wasn’t feasible for her to meet cause she works 30 min in the oppo direction as me.We have been on this topic for 2 weeks & she just won't see my point.I only went over 1 time last week (if she isn't goin to work with me I have to do what I have to do),& said that it is not the same cause I was only over 1 day.I said come to me whenever! We dont have to go to my house we can go out for dinner, a movie, a drink! She said I can’t give her what she needs by coming once a week.That I am not the guy she thought I was, & that I didn't love her anymore (all of which is untrue).What makes this tough is besides this (and her not visiting my fam on the holidays ) we have not had 1 argument ever! It was completely perfect! She cooks for me, gives me a nice place to stay & has been a lovin gf to me.
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My philosophy always is if your thinking about breaking up with a person that's probably what you should do. Every time I let it go on when I was thinking about breaking up with someone it went on to long and we both got hurt pretty bad in the end. It's best to end it sooner.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE