My ex and I broke up since 26 of April, the thing is I tried to get back to him sent him many texts explaining that it's unfair to break up this way and we know each other for five years, I asked my cousin to talk to him in Whatsapp but he didn't talk to her until she promised she won't brought me up to him. I think he thought I was her or something, she started talking to him about her crush and he said don't get yourself into love it's bullsh*t, then he put a picture with this quotation * unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time. there are too many mediocre things in life. love shouldn't be one of them* what does he mean? We had our upside down, lately our relationship became cold like for example after sex he starts playing with his phone and I just lie down without saying a word, I don't believe our love is not real but all I know he got bored of me and his friends around doesn't want him with me because I'm not the kind who talks to guys, * a good girl* therefore he doesn't take me in their gathering.. I just want him back and I don't know what to do anymore, he's my first love and if he opened his eyes he will see how great our love is if he just gave more effort because he does nothing for me lately, just cold blooded.
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Men do not have hues and nuances, we are simpler even when we don't know what we want.
He's not into it anymore.
If he broke up with you and doesn't want to come back then let him go, at least for a while. Chasing him will only make him run faster.
By that quote I get he thought of his last love as not as "mad, passionate, extraordinary" as he would have liked or hoped.
If he's moving on, you should do the same. If he was your first love but for him it was not the same, as he has written, maybe you gave it more value than you thought.1
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